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If I was not in a relationship, and I bought a brass lamp at the antique store, and the geni in the lamp could deliver the girl of my dreams. . . she would be an older version of the girl in this photo. BUT. . . after 50+ years of dating and relationships, I have dated only one woman who came close to this ideal; she was REALLY hot (but she was eventually revealed to be a drug abuser and a horrible potential partner for me.) I have dated women who were taller, heavier, not blonde, more endowed upstairs, not as cute, etc. Many of those women were very good dating partners and many of them appealed to me in a lustful way! I am engaged now and my fiancee looks NOTHING like this photo, but she's a GREAT match for me! So, if you ask me about my ideal woman, I can describe her but this ideal ("my type") has really eluded me all of my life. That's okay.

So. . . what about you? How often have you dated someone who was a good match for your ideal guy or girl?

It’s not right? Girls want really attractive and stuff?

I ask this with the upmost respect and to women only as I am not a woman and cannot and will not speak on their behalf but I’ve observed a phenomenon where I see average guys getting with women I can only dream of and that’s absolutely great and I’m happy for them, one of my best friends looks exactly like little xan down to the last detail and gets girls left and right and non stop and since we’ve been friends has dated at least 40 different beautiful women, some of which have straight up said they would have sex with me if given the chance while dating him but don’t actually talk to me after they break up with him. Now I take care of myself and would say I’m a handsome mixed guy and I haven’t had a woman show interest in me in forever, no dms, no glances from women just like me, and I’m left absolutely perplexed in a sense. it’s just an observation and if this does apply then why?

If this is what he dreams of