What to do when he stops texting?

[Anonymous]

• You met a dream man, he’s everything you want in a man.
  
  
• You’ve been texting everyday and you thought you finally met that “one”. The 18 year age gap doesn’t scare you because he is mature and he knows what he wants. You are ready to commit to him.
  
  
• Suddenly he stops texting you and starts following and liking the posts of a girl who’s 22 year younger than him.
  
  
• I am discarded, upset and hurt. I liked him and thought something would turn out of this.

Why do men do this? Why was I not enough?

Updates

2 mo

Not 22 but that girl is 25 years younger than him.

[DoodleGirl]

people in general are strange, we more than often make decisions that make no sense to others for multiple reasons. life's not fare and maybe he was not the one. at the end of the day, it was his loss and you've still got a lot of time to look for the right one. don't be discouraged, everything happens for a reason. on the bright side, you get to enjoy the dating scene a little while longer.

[Exterminatore]

You’re not used to men having options.


Why do men do this?….. for the same reasons women do this, because they have better options.


You feel discarded, you want to know why you weren’t enough. I’m sure 99% of all men on this planet wonder the same as this is the usual reality for them. Striking out 9 times out of 10 at bat.


What to do about it? Never text or communicate with him again. Be rejected yet dignified. That’s all you can do.

[BoopBoopBeep]

If you're only interested in texting, no, you weren't enough.

[Asker]

I was obviously interested in more. What should I have done to be enough?

[BoopBoopBeep]

Well how often did you two talk? Not text, talk? How often did you see each other?

[Asker]

We don’t live in same countries so never, but he told he was planning to visit my country. We called with audio calls and texted everyday.

That girl he is following now, also lives in another country, but they seem to have met, when he was on his trip, while he was texting me.

[BoopBoopBeep]

In person is pretty hard to overcome. Sorry to say but even if she's only around while on his trip, that's still "around" for that time period and is going to trump what essentially is a souped up penpal. You should reach out when his trip is over if you'd still like to communicate, but be aware that he almost assuredly slept with the other lady while they were there

[midnightmoon05]

He is a married man… he got the other one hooked… met and going to see her…
Then comes back to u… u become more desperate… meet with him… your will turn into his other side chick.
I like this version. ;)

[Radiate143]

"Why do men do this? Why was I not enough?"

Because you talk to yourself like this and men smell this. Change your self talk. And really it's no big deal.

He's past the marriage age and still wants to act like a 20 year old. What was "dream man" about him?

[PrettyCrumblBb]

You thought he was mature. But more than likely he was sliding into multiple dms. Why do you want a guy that's way older than you? Do you really think a guy that dates a girl half his age is mature?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Bro chill.. what’s meant for you no one can take.

[spartan55]

You can't lay a foundation for anything else through text.

[midnightmoon05]

You stop and find someone close by. Meet in person within 2 weeks… have fun

[ProbablyClueless]

Just let the conversation go for a while and then text him again when there's something to talk about?

[WhitneySnow]

He doesn’t really like you. He just wants a younger girl. The younger the better.

[sheikalana]

There's chances he was talking to other women at the same time.

[Nikki1989]

If you are only texting, nothing about this is serious anyway.

[Flatmanlewis]

Thank you! These “he broke my heart” - never met in real life text buddies - really are odd to me.

[MaterialisticMember]

He got bored of you it seems. Try texting or getting his attention somehow if you really like him

[Asker]

How do I get his attention? I am not playing games, I am who I am.

[MaterialisticMember]

I honestly don't know

[KrakenAttackin]

Giga Chad has options.

[riverrat3]

How do you know he was liking other posts

[Asker]

I know, we are following each others’ social media.

[fuddly]

That's life

[antnd]

provoking him