I hung out with her for a few months during my last college semester----we used to text every other day and for the days in between we had class and we'd sit next to each other and talk, and sometimes we'd even text each other in class even though we sat next to each other. I asked her to hang out eventually so we hung out, then the semester ended. I tried getting her to hang out over break, but her schedule never opened for me (I know, red flag). Still, she texted me a bunch----whenever we text each other, we always tease or make fun of each other or say something funny and she was doing it even more than she usually did.
When she blew me off early in break, I just stopped texting her. A week later, she texted me, which surprised me and, surprising me even more, she showed a willingness to continue the conversation throughout the day. At the end of every text, she'd ask me a question that I'd have to answer. So I didn't write her off... a few days later I asked her to hang out again, but again I was having trouble getting her to come out. It took about half a week of going back and forth to realize that she probably just didn't want to hang out.
So I gave up. I know some girls say they like persistence, but I have my dignity--I"m not going to beg her to continue to hang out with me. I stopped texting her and figured she'd text me eventually.
But, no, it's been several months and she hasn't.
I just can't understand that after all that, she'd just drop communication. Do girls do that so easily? I hear they do that when there's another guy involved, but as far as I knew there wasn't at the time I was hanging out with her and when I stopped texting her, it was only three weeks since I last saw her, so the odds are she couldn't have found anyone else in that span, especially since it was during break.
When she blew me off early in break, I just stopped texting her. A week later, she texted me, which surprised me and, surprising me even more, she showed a willingness to continue the conversation throughout the day. At the end of every text, she'd ask me a question that I'd have to answer. So I didn't write her off... a few days later I asked her to hang out again, but again I was having trouble getting her to come out. It took about half a week of going back and forth to realize that she probably just didn't want to hang out.
So I gave up. I know some girls say they like persistence, but I have my dignity--I"m not going to beg her to continue to hang out with me. I stopped texting her and figured she'd text me eventually.
But, no, it's been several months and she hasn't.
I just can't understand that after all that, she'd just drop communication. Do girls do that so easily? I hear they do that when there's another guy involved, but as far as I knew there wasn't at the time I was hanging out with her and when I stopped texting her, it was only three weeks since I last saw her, so the odds are she couldn't have found anyone else in that span, especially since it was during break.
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