Background story is this — a random girl added me to IG. Didn’t know her. Decided to DM her, she responds back saying I think I know you from university (we went to the same uni). Start chatting more, she’s laughing at all my jokes, sending long text messages, short videos of her, responding quickly to my msgs. This goes on for over a month. However, I told her some important news regarding my dad but she didn’t respond. I know she’s on vacation for about 2 wks but I know she’s home now. She’s active on social media and liking posts but still didn’t respond back to me. I didn’t do anything wrong.
But I just feel like maybe she’s not interested anymore and doesn’t want to respond to me or there’s another guy in the picture. She still follows me on IG but I’m tired of going through this with women. I try to be an interesting, charismatic, thoughtful funny guy and women just move away. Should I just block her on IG?
What Girls Said
I think there is nothing to worry about, you guys just need to talk 😊
She’s not responding, I don’t want to text her more. Then it seems weird.
Why not commenting on her ig posts
She doesn’t post much. I don’t want to have interactions on social media I want to call and potentially meet her. I’ve seen her like other posts with guys. I just feel like she doesn’t like me anymore in that way and she doesn’t want to respond because it seems cold hearted to talk to a person with feelings that were short lived. Maybe she was lonely, maybe she was just trying to see what type of guy I am. I just don’t get why girls can’t be straight forward. It’s not right to lead someone on.
Another reason why I’m I am a bit angry with her is that she’s liking other posts that guys are posting in recent days. I told her almost 2 wks ago that my dad passed away. Doesn’t bother responding back to me, no condolences. I hear so often be a good person and focus on your life and girls will come to the guy. That’s not true. I’ve tried to be a genuine, caring, sympathetic guy who gives a girl space, not talking about sex or making weird flirting comments. I’m tired of girls doing this.
I don’t get why she added me on social media, I don’t know.
No I'm wishing you all the best, the right person will come along~ I know you will find that person ! Sorry for your loss , may you find strength if you haven't yet
*Note that person could be her too, who knows
must have found herself a man
Well I guess that’s a swift kick in my balls and a broken heart 🤦🏻♂️ see what y’all girls do :-|
yes I am sorry
Why does she still follow me on social media and view my stories
because you are a backup plan or she cares about you or she is bored and views people's stories when she is bored. Maybe she follows you because you follow her
I didn’t know this girl she added me on Instagram and even went on vacation saying oh I’ll bring you back something. I hate when females act this way. Don’t string guys, don’t manipulate guys because I consider that selfish and immature. If girls act this way, eventually karma will come back and get her for leading on others. I don’t talk to people because I’m bored and if I’m a back up she should just pursue her desires and keep that guy who’s above me on her radar and got after him and not talk to me altogether. I’m tired of women and I think I’m ready to completely never talk to women again to pursue anything with them.
Maybe I should unfollow her and block her
Yeah I mean she sounds like a player. I am sorry about it
lol are you handsome I'll give you a gift I don't take trips lol but I am poor
I’ve officially closed the door on pursuing women, I have been ghosted, rejected, toyed with, dealt with manipulators and liars. No offence but I no longer see good in women. I think women want to purposely break a guys heart. I didn’t take advantage of these girls financially or sexually, and they want to pull this on me that I’m not good enough? As of this day forward I will be a cold person. Something inside of me broke for my trust in females. I used to be a happy, optimistic guy for females but this was the last straw. Once you’re a guy and you lose hope, that’s it.
I don’t want anything from women. I don’t want any gifts, any love, any admiration, nothing. If women want to hate me, or do this to me, she will get what’s coming to her when the guy she’s with treats her poorly down the road. If women want to label me a criminal, so be it.
I am a great woman
Every girl I talked to who I was interested in said they were a great woman in some way but ended up hurting me. I know you’re going to read this and assume I did something to them. I gave these girls space, I made them laugh, I didn’t hit on them sexually in a rude way or creepy way. I can’t trust y’all. You’d probably just hurt me and not care.
I am the best woman