Girls, Should I stop texting her?

[Anonymous]

Well I have been texting with this girl for awhile now I'm confused if she likes me or not she replys to all my text an we tell each other good night good morning daily. I try to stop talking to her then continues the conversation or let's me know that she still wants to talk an she like my status on fb we share details about our self an I mention things she does an she replys I'll get used to it like I'll be around to i try to hangout out we have once already but keeps saying we will an we will see we really don't know each other that well yet I don't know if it's her wanting to get to know me better or what I'm just really comfused

[Anonymous]

hmmm... she either likes you or she is being a really nice friend. I would try to hang out with her more and see how that goes. Maybe after getting to know each other a bit more you could test the waters, ask her questions about dating or hint that you like her?

Sorry, hope this helps.

[Asker]

Well I kinda let that be known how i like her but I also said I wanted to get to know her before anything else but I've told her if she ever wanted me to leave here be I would respect it that an she keeps saying it's fine in a way I think she is catching feelings too but chose to back off a bit because maybe she's catching them to fast like I'm said I'm just confused an don't want to screw up

[Opinion Owner]

That would make sense (if she's falling fast). She might be scared to get into things too soon, because of a past relationship experience or what not. You seem to be doing the right thing, though. I would keep talking/texting her and see where it goes.

[Asker]

Well to be honest I texted her back asking her if everything is ok or if there is something wrong or she may of heard something or if i was maybe doing something I told her if there is anything that may be bothering her that she could tell me I won't be upset an I'd like to know i seriously like this girl I would be dissapointed if there was really something going on which is changing the way we talk but I wouldn't be an ass about it an regardless I'd still loved to be friends with her she is truly an amazing person

[Opinion Owner]

you sound so sweet. Give her time. I hope it works out for you!

[Asker]

Me too. I got out of a toxic relationship with my sons mother 2 years ago an haven't really tried dating or nothing the last 2yrs my main focus has been my son which I have full time. Some how she is aware about her an I never bring her up when we talk for one I don't find it proper to an I don't want that to play a part with her. But make me wonder that means she's doing her homework about me an is another reason I'm thinking she likes me because why bother if you weren't interested I have nothing to hide but this is a trial as n error like I said I've been out the game for awhile an I'm not to play a game maybe I'm just overthinking it way to much lol

[Opinion Owner]

It's likely she's done her research, lol. It's great that you're putting your son first, you don't hear about a lot of dads like that. Try your best not to overthink it, good luck!

[Unesjomajo]

Dont stop texting her!

Show her you really want her, Im sure she's testing you. Dont give up, good luck!

[Asker]

I'm thinking the same thing maybe thinks I'm only wanting one thing but this isn't the case I can wait for all that an I'd be cool with that maybe shesjust having an off day or something believe me I really don't want to give up but I don't want to seem weird or nothing or pushy

[allie16]

I don't see why you should stop texting her. She might just want to be friends - but she might want something more. If you are comfortable talking to her, I would ask her about it - rather than just stop talking to her.
Hope this helps!

[Asker]

I didn't mean just to stop talking to her completely. She is aware of the way i feel an i told her I would be fine with friends. We just haven't talked as much today an she says it's cause of shitty service which when I'm over there the service does suck maybe I'm just overthinking things. But usually she responds maybe it's to see how I'll react I don't know