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Just a short story for the gist of it: I've met this woman whom I greatly enjoy talking to, who is also very beautiful, extroverted, outgoing and social. We met at church and spoke on a few ocassions. When I talked to her she always looked me straight in the eyes without breaking away and all that. She mentioned a bit casually that she and her friends hosted regular get-togethers back at their campus and that I should come. I said I'd think about it, flash forward to the Sunday before the Tuesday for the get-together and without me saying anything she goes out of her way to ask me if her friend had added me to their whatsapp group, I say no and she does so personally immidiately *and* adds me to her personal whatsapp (even though she didn't need to). Now at the actual events where I've attended thrice now, she's been a bit more "distant" I suppose, not really initating convos, at times I think even avoiding eye contact. Last time though me, her and my sister who went along spoke and she mentioned that she "overheard" my conversation nearby with another guy when I talked about how "it could be a movie the way you met your wife", even though she was at that time in the midst of a high-pace card game, and she commented on hearing something about "romantic movies" (I nor he said nothing of romance at any point).

So am I being silly here, is it just "normal extroverted girl behavior" or is there something to gauge here in the form of romantic interest or attraction? Thankful for input. I feel like the invite and whatsapp deal could be a sign but I'm chronically cynical lol.

this is over distance we met a few years ago at a mutual friends party and started talking online
I met this woman a few months ago and last night she finally admitted that she likes me but the thing is I can see that she is very afraid of being vulnerable whereas I am not she seems to have fear of abandonment

Anyway she obtains her income by being on social media and she posts a lot of things relating to her work on this. The thing is she posts things like if a man is not as successful as her she cannot even be around him. Whereas with me I can associate with anyone I do not care who they are

She claims that I am like family to her and she did wear her best outfit for me on my birthday

she says things about her friends to me and she seems very upset when her friends think she is weird but she also says that she is so confident that she doesn’t care what others think of her

She says on her social media that she wants a guy who is wealthy. But with me she claims that money does not matter to her when it comes to love

she told me that her social media is just a game and she also told me when this guy was sending her gifts that it was just a game as part of the social media

She asks guys their height

She has lip fillers and spends a lot of money on her appearance (not that this matters but it may help with your assessment)

She said that she could not even be around a man who isn’t as successful as her but thing is I am just some ordinary guy

I have helped her with one part of her social media and I have achieved massive results for her whereas on her own she was fairly idle and just quite lazy with it

I am qualified in communications so I know how to increase audience

I don’t know what to think of this

Should I stay with her or go?

I do like her and she knows it but I don’t know if she’s being real with me or fake as in she is fake in general and just wants me to remain in her life so she does not feel vulnerable

if I delete her I may lose her forever