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My boyfriend (33) recently went on an international trip with his best friend (female). He said she asked him and it was long due. They booked two different rooms (as per him) and she even has a boyfriend. He came back and spoke to me and said “Please trust me, she is a very dear friend and person.” Things have been normal and but I kind of don’t trust because he didn’t share any pictures with her on Instagram (he generally does if someone tag him). I confronted him but he kept saying she is friend.
Once I said jokingly “oh come on, she is a beautiful blonde girl and you never had feelings?” On this he said, she wants family and at least 5/6 dates before sex which kind of surprised me. I feel that he may had feelings but let go of her.

He is a very nice guy and everything was perfect before his trip. This episode had destroyed my peace and I want to see their pictures. I have already confronted him many times and he keeps saying nothing happened. It’s not about sex but if he had feelings and lied to me and went with her. I don’t want to annoy him but just want to know the whole truth. Because what he is telling me is half truth.

We typically hear of players saying anything to get into our pants but rarely of long-term users that will forge an entire relationship (even if she's just average in looks) for money.

I've read of a horrible story like that. The girl finds out he never even found her very attractive (just average looking) but came from a wealth family (she was studying to be a dentist) and so he still wanted the relationship. His plan was to marry her for the money and assets. Needless to say this hurt the girl so much more than if she had just been used for sex and the guy left. It destroyed even her own female ego of not even being seen attractive.

I find this new. Hence why I'm wondering now. Would this be more hurtful (a man marrying her for wealth/money) for a woman? More than just dealing with a player that only wants sex and leaves afterwards?