Should I just ghost her?

[Anonymous]

Girl I’ve been talking to got mad at me cause I was joking and told her I wasn’t gonna buy her a new eyebrow pen which I lost when I was with her and said she’ll have another dude buy it for her, She also said earlier that day she’ll have me come see her and then not show up. I gonna give her pencil then I’m cutting her off, is that the wrong choice. She did apologize immediately afterwards saying she said it cause I Keep playing with her but to me It just shows she has no respect and could possibly do this in the future. And would think it was ok cause I got her mad. It’s many other things that don’t sit well with me either like the fact that she told me a few days before Valentine’s Day that I would have to get her something first before she gets me something which I did buy her something long before that, and then when we linked up for the first 2 times after we talked everyday for like 4 months she said no contact on the first few dates which I didn’t listen to but I noticed she would let me feel on her or kiss her neck but her mouth was a no. Am I wasting my time? By the way she claims she’s a virgin but she’s had boyfriends and went out with guys before. And she tells me I gotta wait a good while before sex, I’m wondering did she have any past experiences where some dude used her just for sex and is now over protective of her self? When I ask about past relationships it’s like she won’t say much or go into complete detail, and she said basically that the last two guys she was with, one didn’t want a relationship with her and the other always didn’t have time for her. She’s also very insecure, she would say that after I see her in person would I stop talking to her and also things like people probably see us and think what’s he doing with her, and yes I’m above average on looks but i never had any ideas of doing something like that, do you guys think she had some past trauma that she doesn’t speak about. Any insight

[bamesjond0069]

On one hand she seems like a bitch and id ghost her. But on the other virgins are very rare and most men find them very valuable. Id personally stick it out but lay down clear lines. Ie. Say "what you said was rude and immature and i will not be talked to like that, do you want me even though i lost your pencil and im not buying you a new one or do you want some loser to buy you a pencil? If im not worth more than a pencil im wasting my time here." Really though buy the pencil and if she chooses you give her the pencil. If not take the penicil back or chuck it in the trash since you're not a loser.

[Carolus]

Don’t, just flow with the vibe till you nail then bail, someone with such preconditions, cheap talk and blackmail isn’t a worthy lifetime partner.

[y_usef]

You should be a servant to a woman and do whatever she asks of you