Should I just let this go?

[Anonymous]

So I recently moved have gotten any action, play or met anyone at all. I want to meet someone who can take me o n dates and just you build something. My first night meeting some guys here was last weekend. I met two. One texted me dryly for like 3 days and then said he didn’t one a relationship which I never really disclosed that I was looking for that anyway. I never responded. Second guy has been awfully consistent. He texts me every day. He always wants to talk to me except he is from Ohio and only visits here once a month. So stupid. But he wants to do all the things that I want. He is also very bad boy esque. He has some tattoes on his face and all over his body. Im a college grad who has never really ever dated a bad boy I guess not one that looks like him anyway. He seems very sweet but I’m naturally a skeptical person so I have my hang ups about it. I think he is cool though but it bothers me that I won’t be able to see someone I’m working on something either and that he could possibly be someone who is into other activities. Plus I don't know what goes on in Ohio. He denied having kids and etc but states he is looking for something solid but why all the way here and u don’t live here? I’ve been looking for love for a while and I know it’s unexpected but my imagination was much more different than this. I don't know Should I just ghost him?

[Finchie40]

Well first , if he isn’t your type or what you are use to and you only see him once in awhile , then you are best to not waste your time with him if you are looking for something more serious. Long distance relationships usually don’t last , it just depends on the chemistry and connection and attraction you have for that person and each other. from my experiences with meeting girls’ that lived far away , it was more just a booty call more than anything , because we didn’t get to see each other as much as we would like to , the sex was great when we finally did see each other , but we barely knew each other because we didn’t see each other as often , so it pretty much just came down to just remaining friends with benefits for the most part , it’s not easy just to pick up and move to be with someone and change your whole way of living , especially if you own a home and you have a full time job, I am not saying it can’t work , just saying it’s a slim chance of it working for it to work you both have to be on the same exact page with everything and trust each other as much as possible , it’s hard to trust someone that you don’t get to see daily.

[lightbulb27]

Im from ohio and met my wife long distance. But at your age… waste of time. Yoi could get a wonderful guy or a psycho human trafficker from ohio or anything inbetween. You are drawn to guys w tstooes and bad boy … ugh… not my reality.


Stay local.

[driven159]

you have to fallow your heart but with your eyes wide open

[ThrillSeeker01]

I would just move on, honestly.

[Anonymous]

Let it go