We were at Olive Garden and the server asked if she wanted cheese on her plate and she said “yes.” The server started rolling and whispered “say when” but my girlfriend didn’t hear and she gave her a squint after a few seconds and said “are you fucking kidding me? Give me a new plate.” The server paused, apologized and said that she had asked her. Then my girlfriend said “who the fuck wants that much cheese on their plate.” The girl was like “I’m very sorry ma’am.” My girlfriend was very rude to her. I was face palming 🤦🏻♂️ and so embarrassed about this. My girlfriend was in the wrong here but I had to take her side regardless. I felt so uncomfortable because literally other people were looking at us around our dining area
My girlfriend caused the most embarrassing moment of my life. Should I just let this go or would you break up?
Your girlfriend sounds like a Karen. I hate when people are rude to people serving them for no reason. I hope the server had the cooks take "special care" of her replacement dish 😂.
Seriously though you don't have to take her side. Stand up for what you believe is right no matter who's feelings it hurts or what kind of fight it may cause. That is a red flag because instances like that are rarely one time occurrences and that behavior surely spills into other areas.
She does not sound like a nice person. anyways , just because you love someone does not mean you compromise what is right. I love my mother but I will call her out on her bullshit when I have to.
You could let it go if you want to keep dating a litle longer because maybe the sex is that good, but this will keep happening. This is diva, high-maintenance, self-centered, it's-all-about-me, I'm-never-wrong behavior. Want a lifetime of that shit? After 10 years, you'll look like this:
DUMP HER! Listen, your gut is telling you that something was wrong with her behavior, you should follow your gut feeling. Personally, I think that is an indication of her lack of patience, appreciation for other people’s work, place and the person in front of her…YOU! What kind of woman acts like that to another woman, she has no class, no manners. If she cannot respect your presence, the place and the person serving her, she doesn’t deserve to be with good people. She could’ve approached the situation differently, like a lady and simply asked the server to remove the excess of cheese, no need to be rude and act like a bi*%ch 🤷🏻♀️ It’s in situations like this when you get to know a persons heart, kindness and humbleness. You deserve someone better. (Sorry but I can’t vouch for a spoiled entitled bitch)
Instead of either just letting it go or breaking up with her.. You can have a conversation with her explaining why you were upset/embarrassed. Hear her side/reasoning and see if she apologies or not. You can base your decision based on her response.
I have worked in the service industry and I have friends who are working in the service industry. Unless the server was rude and attacked your girlfriend first, I see no reason why your girlfriend had to insult the poor server like that. In your case, your girlfriend was clearly in the wrong, she is spoilt and unreasonable.
I think you need to re-evaluate if this is the type of person who want to be with.
I’m not sure what your girlfriend has going on in her life to cause her to react like that towards the server, but obviously it was an abnormal or extreme reaction. I think you should have a talk with her if you haven’t already and figure out what’s going with her. Also, keep in mind that humans are not perfect so she could’ve made a mistake that she realized and be deeply sorry for it.
When I read the first line of so of your question, I thought you were joking. But now that I read the whole thing, yeah I'd be done with that chick. Why would she wait until there's more then what she considered to be an acceptable amount? She could have just said that'll do at any time but waited until it was way to much for her? That's just stupid, not too mention, it's not like it was melted cheese. She could have removed pretty much all of it pretty easily, without being a total cunt.
You didn’t have to accept that behavior, let alone side with the person who did it. Life is full of tough choices. That is deplorable behavior. I wouldn’t accept or condone it. I would have dumped her and left, and handed the server a big fat tip on the way out.
'My girlfriend was in the wrong here but I had to take her side regardless. '
No you didn't, you were just simping. That comes from being afraid to lose her, scarcity mindset or societies programming. Learn from it and you won't be afraid to put her in her place. What's next? What if she did something even worse... you side with her and she will never learn.
That's a narcissistic personality trait that will never go away and permeate her interactions with everyone in her life. Triple red flag. Stop. Do not pass GO. Open the car door and push her out.
Oh yeah, tell her WHY and let your parting words be "you really gotta fix that shit in a hurry"
"My girlfriend was in the wrong here but I had to take her side regardless." This means you're a beta simp sort of a man. Sadly this means either you put up with this behavior or break up. If you had some balls you could just put her in her place and possibly have a normal relationship with her. I'm just being honest and probably more so than most who will respond to you.
You should break up with her. You deserve to be with a person that is kind to others. Your girlfriend just disrespected someone trying to do their job and that's not okay.
I can understand getting upset when a server messes up but what is disturbing is how she reacted and how badly she treated somebody who just was trying to do a job. It would make me wonder how she would treat me after we got married.
Yes break up with her and go back to olive garden and apologize for the incident because u should had told ur so call girlfriend that.. that wasn't right for her to do
You should have sided with the server. If the girlfriend didn’t like you doing that. Then tell her to hit the road! I wouldn’t put up with someone that did that more than once!
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