Have you ever want to dump your girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Guys, have you ever want to dump your girlfriend just because she got upset over something but you ended up not doing it just so you know you won’t be happy in the long run and because you also still love her? If so, have you ever told her about it? And girls, have your boyfriend ever did that to you? If so, has he ever told you?

[DaveJord]

If I understand the question correctly, and if you are asking if I ever broke up with a woman over something I disagreed with her about, but I still loved her and wanted to be with her.

The answer is yes. I was dating an amazing woman. But she serious debate issues, so ended up taking a second job, with two kids. So she went from 40 hours a week to 80 years a week working. She really didn't have any free time after that. She started to guilty about any time she spent with me, because it took time from her children, and started to feel that she was holding me back. And honestly, she was... so yes we broke up but i still very much care about her.

If second of question you are asking is if I stayed with woman, I disagreed with because in the long run I thought it would be better for me?

The answer is yes, I think what you are describing here is called marriage. I adamantly disagreed a lot with my ex-wife, but I stayed married to her for 22 years because I loved her and because I thought it better for me, and especially for the kids. Well, I was wrong on both accounts.

So, men disagree with a lot of the thing's woman say and do. We honestly don't really say it 90% of the time. That is because we expect certain things from woman, and we forgive the for it honestly.

Have i ever told a woman that I totally disagree with her. The answer is yes I have told several times, but I can't remember a time where it was ever a good idea. They made my live missierable, all of the relationships ended soon after, other then my 22 year marriage... and trust me I was so miserable me telling her how I disagreed with her behaviors became a daily occurrence. But it did not matter... she was terrible person at the end.

Here is the thing, and I don't know if it is just woman thing or if man are just as bad. I am man so my experience is all based upon my own personal interactions with woman.

Woman say they want an honest and sincere man, but its bullshit. They say that until they truly meet one, and then question his motivations and assualt his intgrity by refsuing to beleive what he is saying is actually true. I swear to you, beint 100% honest and transparent with a woman is almost worst then straight up lying to her. I mean it does work, she does accpet what you are saying regardless of if it is lie or the truth. So most men walk a tight line of not lying, but not being completely honest. We do this by not shareing our feelings completely, and we keep our mouths shut about it.

[DaveJord]

Typos - I mean it does NOT work, she does NOT accept what you are saying regardless of if it is lie or the truth.

[boggboss]

Never done this and probably wouldn't tell her if I did

[dudeinohio]

I don't think about dumping someone, just because of one disagreement.

[BoopBoopBeep]

More times than I can count.

[In_Trance]

Yes I have