Should I dump my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

All she does is sit their looking pretty and spends all of my money. I can't even ask her to make me a meal without getting an attitude so I force my tired body to cook my own meals and hers.

[Miristheiss]

Well, maybe.

Why don't you try being a man first and LEAD. Why are you letting her have access to your money to spend it? That is on you. You let her do that. You let her take advantage of you.

Unless you are married you have no obligation to buy her anything. Other than treating for a date from time to time your money should stay 100% with you. If she expects your money to be her money then you do need to dump her.

[SolitarySolace]

Doesn't sound like a girlfriend. Sounds like you're her slave.

[SolitarySolace]

I doubt you're going to dump her because you seem soft. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Asker]

Just because you said that I am going to dump her I am tired of her anyway.

[SolitarySolace]

Good 👍🏼

[SolitarySolace]

Be sure it's permanent and don't keep her around as a friend

[Taniisokay]

She isn't wife material. Don't stuck around with her. Gold digger?

[IslaTheWitch]

lol... so you didn't know with whom you created the relationship?

[Cheapskate]

If you feel like the relationship is not worth it, then sure, no need to keep going.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Yes you should. She will only get worse if you tolerate that now.

[Twalli]

If she doesn't bring anything to the relationship, dump her. My girlfriend cleans our room and does the laundry. I cook and make most of our money. We both provide something to the relationship.

[bobby_bush_eater]

Sounds like dead weight but what have you done other than allow this behavior and allow her to walk all over you and take advantage of you?

[Anonymous]

Pretty is not enough, particularly in your 30s. If she's not improving your life now, what can you expect in the future?

[handsomelad70]

Maybe she dislikes your spelling, bud.