Should I dump her?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend felt abandoned when I kept ignoring her phone call and then I lost my phone and went to a girl (just a friend's house) I ignored her call because I didn't want her to come to the house party I was at with my guy and girl friends to bring me back to our house.(I hated that house, I can't stand her kids). She freaked out and thought we were done... so she decided to activate her Facebook dating and chat with a guy. I came home several hours later, told her what happened (that I didn't cheat ) and that I had lost my phone. I found her messages on the dating site when she left her phone in the bathroom. I confronted her about it and she says she didn't cheat and started blaming me.

[Gaibriel]

Both of you are toxic.

Both of you should leave the relationship and not date anyone until you figure yourselves out.

[Asker]

Valid point

[JoyGirl]

I mean, you are trying to justify ignoring her calls…
You don’t have valid points.
She is also in the wrong for hitting up another guy, without knowing if you guys are officially over.

So, both of you are wrong. :)

[Asker]

That's what I said to here

[Asker]

*her

[JoyGirl]

You guys could talk about it, and communicate.
If neither of you don’t want to fix anything, you both need to leave the relationship.

[Asker]

Valid point

[Cormac995]

You know that whole "am i the asshole" thing on reddit? Based on this story you both sound like crazy selfish idiots.

[Asker]

Agreed lol

[Cormac995]

In terms of advice? Listen to Joygirl. I couldnt have said it better myself. Thats my advice, take hers lol

[Anonymous]

Neither of you should be dating. Her for overreacting to your losing your phone, and you for just being shitty to her.

[In_Trance]

Yeah