Should I let it go?

[Anonymous]

So I’ve been back talking to the guy who took my v card. Blah blah anyway it’s been like 2 months and I’m also on dating apps because I’m actively looking to date. Anyway. One of his friends liked me on an app. It made me sad because I know that it means either 1. He hasn’t told them about me. 2 he doesn’t care if they talk to me at all or 3 he encouraged it. None of those are good for me. I really like him but I don't know. Should I just stop talking to him overall? I’m sort of embarrassed that he even saw me on there I’ve moved away from my hometown so I didn’t expect that but should I. Just let it go?

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh damn sis, this whole thing has major red flag vibes. I wouldn't trust dude's intentions at all after this. A couple things stick out to me:

- You said you two have been talking for 2 months, but if his boys don't know about you and are still sliding in your DMs, that means he ain't telling people shit about you. Super sketch.

- No way he didn't see you on the apps too by now. For him to let his friend try and kick it with you anyways is mad disrespectful. He clearly ain't taking you seriously.

- Don't matter if it was 1, 2 or 3 - all those scenarios show he don't really care about your feelings or respect your time together as something real.

You deserve way better than some dude who gonna let his boys dis you like that behind your back sis. As hard as it is after losing your V card to him, I say cut him off completely.

Plenty other, way more worthy guys out there who'll actually claim a bad bish like you by their side. Don't even give this clown another thought, for real. You got this!

[JayBones]

He probably told his friend all about you and how easy it was.

[Anonymous]

I say just act like you never saw him on that site.

[laly520]

yes let go

[Anonymous]

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