Search Results: like an insecure guy

Is it possible for an ugly guy to NOT come off as a creep?

I'm unattractive & most females aren't scared of me one bit They know I'm a very insecure, over compensating type with a big mouth & a BITE to some extent & surprisingly most gals aren't afraid of meAm I an odd case?

Anonymous

(30-35)

My cousin is dating an older guy and I feel like she’s not telling me the whole truth?

I have a cousin who is the same age as me and we grew up together our whole lives. She’s had a history of dating the wrong people and I just feel concerned about this new guy she’s with. For a little background, we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can being a man of style compensate for being insecure sometimes when it comes to attracting women?

Say for example, if a guy knows how to dress well, grooms well and have everything about him on point, but has some insecurities about him like being worried sometimes what others think of him (such as being reactive at...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Are women ever attracted to introverted guys or the “independent alpha male” types in terms of dating and relationships? Would they hookup with one?

If women just aren’t attracted to these types of guys than tell me the red pill I need to swallow. I do not appreciate when women give BS answers like “I’d still date a guy without a car if I liked him”. Yeah...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Tips for becoming more conversational as an introverted guy? Focus is mainly on women but advice in general is fine? How to find things to talk about?

Main reason I’m more focused on women is because I seek two different things from them. Sex and intimacy. So while its nice being able to talk with guys, I don’t desire either of those things from them given my...

WhiteBoyChill

Yoda Age: 25

Am I just being insecure or is this situation truly concerning?

Hello! I will get straight to it: I am 23, I met this guy who is 25 years old about 6 months ago and we had so much turmoil because I did many immature mistakes and he responded in toxic ways. We tried to end the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Fashion & Beauty

Is it vain to take care of your looks?

I spend a lot of time with my skincare routine. I have a lot of products because I like variety (I get sample sizes so they don’t expire before I’m done with them). I’ll admit it’s a lot compared to what the average...

LavenderLuna

Xper 4 Age: 23

Religion & Spirituality

How God protects His followers

A few years ago, I was in an unhappy relationship. The guy was never abusive or disloyal, but he was insecure, inept at conversation, lacking in confidence, extremely slow at text and messenger conversations, and did not...

jennifer_bloom

Influencer Age: 41

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Is it unattractive if a girl isn’t that smart or funny?

I always feel insecure about my intelligence and humor since I feel like sucha an average girl on everything, so I wonder… Surprisedly sometime people will like my dry humor. But I’m mostly known for being sweet and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it weird for a man to have a height preference?

OK, so my... Nibba, @ShadezMcgee gave me some advice I needed dating-wise, and I intend to follow it. And I thank him for it, but there is something else on my mind. And if you read the title, you know what it is. We...

TomGarand

Xper 6 Age: 28

Why do I keep getting ghosted by guys I like after they find out that I’m a virgin?

It really makes me so sad and insecure. It’s been way too many times and I just don’t know what to do anymore. I have great conversations and connections with guys but once they find out that I’m a virgin they just ghost...

Sarahdelacruz

Xper 5 Age: 30

Relationships

Will I get an apology from this guy?

I tried to date this guy. He was head over heels for me so fast. It absolutely scared me. Eventually, I started opening a bit of my feelings for him. Within’ a month of knowing him, he felt a bit too quick.. We had sex,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do beautiful women often struggle with insecurity and have an unstable sense of self worth, around guys they perceive as genuine and authentic?

Beautiful women are often drawn to me and show signs that they're falling for me, but often the extremely beautiful ones have crippling insecurities and an unstable sense of self worth, and often don't think they're good...

Anonymous

(30-35)

She says I make her uncomfortable?

I'm friends with a coworker whom I've known for three years. I'm very close to her. She entrusts me with everything in her life. Tells me about all the details- from house chores to appointments to family issues. I have...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I am always supporting my boyfriend’s career but seems he is never there for me. What do I do?

Hey, my boyfriend is a professional musician and is often always busy. We always text goodnight. He plays a show online every Sat night, I watch every single one from my home. During the weeks, he sends me all the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I have toxic tendencies - is my relationship doomed?

I (26yo f) have been with my (30yp m) partner for a year. We live together and generally we are very compatible. HOWEVER. I am kind of a sucky person. I am extremely insecure, I have fierce abandonment issues and I have a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I dm an old high school crush?

I want to ask for some advice about contacting an old high school crush on Facebook. There was some history, but I have no idea if it’s worth it or if he’d even remember me. Though I wanted to see if he remembered any of...

LuminousMind

Xper 6 Age: 26

Do you feel insecure around your partners?

MI’m not in a relationship but I have a friend. We get along well and he actually asked me out on a date. He’s a nice guy, but, I sometimes feel a little bit judged when I’m not looking 100%. I am always well groomed...

Anonymous

(25-29)