Will I get an apology from this guy?

[Anonymous]

I tried to date this guy. He was head over heels for me so fast. It absolutely scared me. Eventually, I started opening a bit of my feelings for him. Within’ a month of knowing him, he felt a bit too quick.. We had sex, everything. Was never a first date, though he was talking about working on doing one with me this weekend. That didn't work out. This guy has showed more interest than I have. Very quick, and I don’t swerve like that. Things didn’t work out once. He blew up my phone, saying how I deserve a good guy. Etc. We worked things out. We fought again, just cause he said how it shouldn’t take me 2 minutes to send him a selfie. Though I wanted to send a good selfie just for him to keep. Understandable?
Yeah, we fought over that. I felt so done walking on eggshells with him. I slowly was letting him go. He blasted my phone, saying I have mad daddy issues. Just cause I mainly have a mom and step-dad. That I’m very immature, just cause I told him what I’m telling you guys. I could sense and feel that this guy is very insecure. I could understand the hurt he was feeling, though I was like.. What did I do to make you so mad at me? Came at me, literally assuming things about me. Saying I have daddy issues, just cause I admitted that I chose not to have my real dad in my life.

Will I ever get an apology, or is he somewhat embarrassed to reach out? I told him to stop messaging me. How he’s disrespectful. Has zero chances of my friendship or whatever.

[all_hayl]

Screw the apology. You're giving him control over you if your wait around for an apology. Forgive him (regardless of if he apologized), block him, etc, and move on.
"Forgiving" doesn't mean you have to be friends again. It basically means letting go and (perhaps in your case) moving on.

[loveslongnails]

Why does it matter that you get an apology? If you do, will it mean anything? Most apologies are just words without understanding, and it surely sounds like that would be what his are. Is it really important that you hear him say "I was wrong, I'm too insecure"? That will never happen with any sincerity, even if he somehow finds those words.

[Asker]

Honestly, I understand where you're coming from. An apology wouldn't do it for me, defined by the way that I told him that I will never give him my friendship or anything else after that. Nobody has told me that before, and I'm shocked that he hit that level with me. I'm nor hurt or mad. I saw the form of insecurities, knowing he doesn't have a good father in his life. Though I made the decision to not have mine in my life. I just wonder if he would somehow feel bad or be the type to think of.. Maybe I shouldn't have said that, type of scenerio.

[loveslongnails]

I would guess not based on his responses so far. I would wager he doesn't believe his behaviors, or his insecurities, are to blame for anything that has happened between you.

[laura123iu]

he's problematic and low key toxic, i think u should consider other options

[MzAsh]

Sounds a bit like BPD to me.

[Rob17792]

you won't get an apology from him so don't hold your breath. the guy sounds like a complete weirdo and you made the right move getting rid of him. getting upset because you took 2 whole minutes to send a selfie. guy sounds like a complete psycho basket case who needs to have his head examined especially if he has temper issues like that

[DaveJord]

He is a narcissist, no you won't get an apology. Sounds like a real asshole to me.

[LiamSawyer]

I doubt you'll get an apologee from this imatture, insensitive jerk. Just forget him and block him.

[Truthatanycost]

Sounds like side effects of the COVID shot...

[cryscrys1]

Lol it’s funny 😂😂

[Danny_dan92]

This whole situation is very confusing. I’m sorry

[Asker]

Absolutely. I don’t blame you. Lol

[Danny_dan92]

Uh huh. Sorry I can’t help you

[CoolGuy7532]

It's time to move on.

[Julious0202]

to me the immature seems to be him

[jasco]

No you won't

[In_Trance]

block and move on