Search Results: personality trait you look for in a guy

The Difference Between the Good Guy and the Nice Guy Isn't Looks: It's Status

It's both the feminists AND the whiny, petulant self-identified "nice guys" that are wrong about this debate. Supposedly, a "nice guy" is just some boring, ugly guy who tries to win women over by doing nice things for...

the_rake

Editor Age: 34

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5 Reasons Nice Guys Aren't All Actually That Nice

Dear Men, You are not all nice guys. There, I said it. And I’m sure you reading this are thinking, “Well…duh?” But here’s something you didn’t expect: This includes the nice guys. Huh? Nice guys aren’t nice guys? That...

EllieLexis513

Editor Age: 36

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Society & Politics

Why Girls Have it Harder Than Boys

Guys have it easier. They didn't have to grow up with the media, fashion magazines, and advertisments persuading them their body, hair, and face isn't good enough, thus have to deal with the body and beauty image worrying...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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7 Reasons Why Nice Guys Will Always Finish Last

This MyTake is obviously attacking the stereotypical self-proclaimed "Nice guys" and not real genuine nice Guys. 1) Victim mentality. This victim mentality is a sign of weakness. Who wants to be with someone weak who...

ElissaDido

Editor Age: 30

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Why Younger Men Are Just As Hot As Older Men

I recently wrote a myTake which went into great detail about the personality attributes I find appealing in older men. The article can be seen here: Older Men, Your Wallet Isn't What Got Me . If you are familiar with the...

Stacyzee

Editor Age: 40

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How to Get a Girlfriend: Attractive, Decent, Or Even Unattractive

Important point: Most guys who get attractive girls get them because those girls find them attractive AND they don't mess it up. How most relationships happen is when someone's intially interested in someone because...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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How can I stop seeing my ex fiance in every girl I'm interested in?

I'm Generally only interested in two categories of women. One of the categories is based on a very specific look (generally right around 100 lbs, 5'4'', short hair) or a very specific personality (it's easier to just say...

Anonymous

(36-45)

A Good-Looking Person Who Acts Nice? Be Careful!

Now the media has a strong influence on how you perceive the world especially who you consider good/bad people. Think back to when you were a little kid, you were constantly being bombarded that the good guy/gal were good...

BubbleBoy69

Editor Age: 33

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Guys, what is the first thing you look for in a girl once you're past the physical attraction?

Once you've found a woman physically attractive, what's the first personality trait you look for that's important to you?

Angelina773

Xper 4 Age: 45

What are some traits guys look in girls based on their personality and appearance?

When guys are into girls, what traits do they like about her? e. g. smile, face, hair, body, nice, smart, funny

Anonymous

(18-24)

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Is there something wrong with me?

No guy ever looks at me or asks me out, I don't think I'm extremely ugly or anything I just feel like I don't contain any type of personality or a good trait... and as for my looks I find myself to be extremely average...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

How People Misunderstand Anxiety, Introversion and Awkwardness: All Related But Not The Same!

I write this take because I have experience with all three personality attributes to some greater or lesser degree and the bad judgments people in my life have made about me as a result. It's easy to understand why there...

the_rake

Editor Age: 34

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Girl's Behavior

How Trying to Understand Women's Feelings About Men Made Me Angry and Anxious

This is my second myTake and before I type what I have to say, let me ask you to keep your opinions civilized, don't be rude and don't troll please. If you plan on insulting me, don't bother sharing your opinion. No I am...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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What makes a guy commit / want to be exclusive?

I find it interesting that sometimes a woman can be exactly what a guy says he wants on paper (I. e. attractive, intelligent, kind, whatever else he is personally looking for etc. etc.), but yet a guy is not always...

missnic825

Xper 5 Age: 40

5 Reasons Why I Don't Care If a Guy Lives With His Parents

Men everywhere seem to believe that their possessions and how much money they have/earn is what attracts women and keeps them. Although this is true for a minority of women, the majority of women look for enjoyable...

Hannah591

Editor Age: 31

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Never been in a relationship - how do they start?

Okay, so pretty much I'm 18 and I've had no interaction with boys whatsoever. No kissing, no flirti g, etc, etc to clear that up. All my life I thought relationships worked like: you have a crush on someone, and they...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

Why That Unattractive Man Got The Beautiful Woman

I'm a very attractive and confident woman. My self-security shows in my upright posture and walk. When you have both characteristics, you come off as a woman of power to others, which in some cases may allow a person to...

Stacyzee

Editor Age: 40

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Flirting

Am I wrong to assume that the more attractive and fit a girl is the less likely she'd find my traits appealing?

I tend to think that a girl who is more attractive will focus more on the physical attractiveness in their partner. I am a fairly average looking guy even though I'm overweight. I tend to immediately disregard a more fit...

Anonymous

(30-35)