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There are 2 women with whom I can have a potential relationship. They both like me and I both like them to a different grade each.

Woman 1: she has been in many long term relationships in the past and possibly had some casual sex. I deeply love her.

Woman 2: she has never been in a relationship in her life. She had, however, lots of casual sex. I like her very much, but I don't have any deep feelings for her

About Me: I 've been in 2 mid-term relationships and I've also had 3 additional sexual partners. I feel more secure with the Woman #2, because she has no relationship experience and it is something she would explore with me. However, I love Woman #1, but I'm afraid she will judge my inexperience because she has WAY MORE experience in sex and relationships than I do. Somehow, I'm afraid that I could not be at the level she might require, both sexually and emotionally.

So it's no surprise that a large percentage of black males are single in the US. I think the statistics is that 52% of black men do not have partners. Now, one think I've notice and mainly among females is that they are more than fine being BFFs and friendly with black women but the moment a black male tries to talk to them or even shows sexual interest, they often get a bit racist around them.

When I say racist, I mean all social decency they will show to men of other races goes out the window and you are seen as beneath them and low status. Basically, you are basically seen as trash with the woman already formulating in her head your accomplishment in life and level of intelligence.

How is it that women can be friendly with someone of one race and yet be completely racist to the same men of that race?

I’m just wondering and would like to see the consensus here given insults can be seen as abusive in a relationship but cheating is also insulting to the partner who was cheated on.

Is it not okay at all? Is there room for context here, I would assume it is somewhat acceptable because it causes lots of confusion and sporadic feelings and especially when its fresh, is it more acceptable if your married, is it more acceptable when you find out years later, is it more acceptable if you find out through rumours, is it more acceptable if you found out in person, is it more acceptable if they told you to leave so they could finish and came back the next day asking for you back, is it more acceptable if you have a family together, is it acceptable if you keep finding out more secrets (maybe it’s been happening from the start, maybe it’s the person who popped there cherry, maybe it’s your best friend, maybe they got pregnant etc.)? If you think it’s okay, is there a time limit to stop hurling the insults, is trauma an acceptable excuse to continually do it or should there be a set grace period where said parter is allowed to blow there feelings up after being cheated on.

Sorry, messy question but I really wanna know what both men and women think about this and I don’t condone abuse, physical, emotional, sexual or physiological but I really wanted to ask this question. . how different the opinion here is and the general consensus if insults or the word “Whore” should ever be given to a cheating partner if you stay together. Please comment and give me you opinion and thank you very much!!