What are some of your dealbreakers for women? Why?

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•Too many sexual partners: Specifically, having engaged in a lot of sexual or intimate actions with many partners (oral sex, making out, etc).

•Feet I don’t like: For me, I have to like how a woman’s feet look.

•Doesn’t want to marry and have children: This is something extremely important to me, arguably the most important goal in my life. I want to marry a woman I love and raise a family with her.

•Flirts with other men online and in-person: To me, this relates to LOYALTY & RESPECT. If you’re intimately with someone, why would you intentionally engage in flirting with another man/woman? I don’t understand this. Unless you don’t care about your partner’s feelings, don’t like them very much, etc.

*I haven’t any issues meeting women who didn’t have good or decent hygiene so this is not an issue.
*Politically, I’ve found that people having a conversation in-person is a lot different than if there is a phone, screen, or other barrier in between you two. I haven’t had issues getting a long with women, who are different than me politically, once we’re able to talk for a bit. Naturally, we find some common ground, come to some comprises, etc.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

This is asked A LOT here on GAG, along with "what does your ideal girl look like?" But I don't really get tired of answering it, so here it goes again:

DEALBREAKERS:

1. Transgender (males).
The biggest dealbreaker of all. I'm not gay, which means I'm not attracted to anyone who isn't a heterosexual monogamous female. Don't be male.

2. Feminist/woke (far-left).
The biggest personality dealbreaker of all. No man-hating, bitter, negative, angry, complaining women should be tolerated.

3. Bisexual/queer (lesbians).
Self explanatory: If she's queer, then she's a lesbian. If she's a lesbian, why on Earth would I want her? Lesbians are a giant turn-off to me. So, straight women or nothing at all.

4. Abusive in any way, physical or verbally.
This is a clear dealbreaker and one I won't tolerate whatsoever, not even red flags or warning signs of it will be tolerated.

5. Polyamorous/isn't single/the "open relationship" type (an adulterer; unfaithful).
These are all basically the same thing: Being promiscuous. I don't want to have anything to do with fast and loose immature women like this who have no loyalty and can't be trusted in a relationship.

6. Has an OnlyFans and/or promotes lewd content on the internet.
The same thing as the one above. These women are unfaithful, selfish, make poor life choices, and can’t ever be trusted.

7. Has “preferred pronouns,” or uses terms like “genderfluid,” “non-binary,” etc.
These people are mentally ill narcissists and psychopaths. I won’t be tolerating their nonsense.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Loud mouth Intolerant liberal Uneducated Unintelligent Arrogant High maintenance Not willing to have a true 50/50 partnership Looks like Joy Behar or Rosie O'Donnell Unemployed Talks about her exes

Squaresquirrel · Accepted Answer

I agree on the feet., although I think I would stay single forever if that was a deal breaker for me. Feet are disgusting most of the time, I have a feet phobie :D
I can understand the number of sexual partners, just one question I am interested in. How will you know what's her true number?

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

I’m not a guy but I know guys do not like girls who lie or contradict themselves. I know rich woman who could not find husbands because of it. Also treacherous people who betray your interests when it does not serve theirs.

t-8900 · Answer

1) had multiple sexual partners2) had an abortion3) would have an abortion4) supports abortion5) anti gun6) atheist7) feminist8) gold digger9) doesn't believe in the sanctity of marriage10) doesn't want kids11) bad hygiene12) political extremist13) morbid obesity

JBlade · Answer

1. Marriage. Not getting married.
2. Kids. Not having kids.
3. Extensive sexual past. 0 sexual partners is sadly unrealistic (🙄) but heavily preferred. I could only truly consider someone with maybe 1 or 2.

That’s it, apparently that’s too picky and extremely hard to find so forever alone.

SimpleGuy95 · Answer

-Hygiene
- if interests are too different
- maturity: She knows what she wants and isn´t just playing around
- her stand on religion (because I work in a religious job sector)
Political stand point is less interesting to me as long as she can articulate why she chooses her position I´m fine (Germany has more parties than the US)
I´m not that much interest in the amount of sexual partners

Iron_Man · Answer

Old age, To many sexual partners a woman with kids, A sarcastic downright mean controlling unfaithful not loyal not caring woman that doesn’t like sports and is lazy that doesn’t want to cook, doesn’t want to help clean the house doesn’t have motivational desires to go out and do things. Cigarette smoker drug user. Mean tough personality. Always on her cell phone even went out on dates. Horrible cock

Quidthonian · Answer

If she is a smoker, she stands less than zero chance of being a girlfriend.
If she wears a ring, I also leave her alone.
if she is overweight or obese, she has little chance of being mine.
if she agrees with everything I say, she is off the list. I'm looking for an intelligent (geeky as a bonus) partner. One that contributes to the conversation.

Markie-mark · Answer

Body count
If they ever dated a Black person
Colored hair that looks like rainbow vomit
Trashy filters covering their face (looking at some of you hoes here)
Not a biological woman
And the basic red flags on them really

Avicenna · Answer

I'll mention one no one else has yet: financial problems and bad spending habits (not the only dealbreakers of course).

Espresso-Grande · Answer

Manipulative Controlling Lack of empathy and compassion  Arrogant  Smoker  Disloyal in anyway at all. Loyalty is a given. If he is disloyal, all of his good qualities would be worthless

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Can I ask why a woman’s sex life is so important to men? Most of us women are hardly bothered about what a man’s done before he meets us. What’s with the double standards?

NathanDavis · Answer

when they are neo-nazis... I don't dig that one bit

hi_it_is_me123 · Answer

The day I learned about bachelor parties on GaG, I can't take any western guy on GaG serious who wants a loyal partner but also is ok with Bachelor/bachelorette parties. I dont know. Sorry for this irrelevant post but I had to say it..

slatyb · Answer

Lack of consideration for others or themselves. Drug use or alcohol abuse.  Magical beliefs including religion.

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

Gold diggers Being shallow and rude, no respect Toxic advantage taking feminist No compassion, believes in outdated gender roles and marriage rules No deluded queer or sjw

Anonymous · Answer

Never asking me how I’m doing or how my day is. It’s actually pretty depressing how few women do this simple thing for men. It happens so seldom I notice when it happens. It is that remarkable.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

1. Slut 2. Fat 3. Career focused 4. Liberal/feminist 5. Not submissive

kinggeorge007 · Answer

I mean I would agree with some of them but many of them are so tribal. Sorry but not sorry.

Jltakk · Answer

If she cares more about politics than our relationship.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

My general deal breaker is that a woman needs to be loyal. No woman has ever met that criteria.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Big body count; Feminist; Always itching for a fight; Entitled; Member/ally of the LGBTQ+; OnlyFans; Abusive;

Almost_Incel · Answer

Seeking a woman without a romantic past, but my dating pool is significantly narrowed.

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