Ladies, what is the blueprint or guide to giving a woman great sex. can/has offer?

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Women are unique, I get that. But there has to be commonalities. Objective do’s and don’ts
I will value all the wisdom shared that can prepare me. Be Thorough in advice covering all stages/erotic zones.

I know I am lame for my lack thereof, but better to start trying to improve since failure is better than Failing to try. Ironically, the latter is why I am in this pickle of a sexually gratifying novice. Here is my story:
I sound like a virgin, but I am not but may as well be. Ex girlfriendS I had done it with were attractive long term relationships. The problem was that these girls in some ways spoiled me sexually. It was one sided. amazing as hell for me, likely underwhelming viceversa). I was somewhat lucky to have a girl put up with it, but unlucky to how it shaped my skillset. not knowing then, I was a selfish partner sexually, who was young and naive. In my defense, lack of feedback given did harm. Instead of acting lexperienced because I didn’t want to come off as inexperienced, I should’ve been real & rdy to learn, took notes, swallowed my pride. Then life went on where I fell into a passiveness dating. I should’ve got educated, now i will look dumb in my age bracket with little league experience. women, paint a word picture and take me under your tutelage so I do well next encounter. I want to make her legs shake and feel the female equivalence to what I felt given by ex girlfriend who should’ve coached me instead of just doing everything I wanted and saying what I wanted to hear.
My last question is whether sex is a dealbreaker, or does it take several occasions to build them chemistry and adapt to each other preferences? Would you be willing to date an inexperienced person if he was willing to put the work in to get it right. That’s where I am at right now, a student who is trying to be legend
Help! give me the words , the tempo, the spots and secret weapon to your pleasure and affection.
Ladies, what is the blueprint or guide to giving a woman great sex. can/has offer?
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