What Do Women Offer In A Relationship?

[BLMUSER]

When I date a woman I'm a gentleman and I always pay for everything. I'm polite and courteous. Most all of the women I've dated have drama and I listen to them. Relationships require a lot of time, energy, effort, and money and it seems I'm doing it all. She just sits back while I do the work.

I can't help wonder, what am I getting out of the relationship?

[Dinklex3]

Depends on the woman.
Maybe next time figure out your expectations in a relationship and find someone who matches.

[zoe2187]

What do you get/want out of a relationship?

[BLMUSER]

I've read that people in relationships live longer and happier lives than those who are single. But these women I date wear me out. The more attractive the women are the more demanding they are. And there always seems to be a price involved, not necessarily money, when intimacy comes into play.
And the heavy-set ones have a lot of drama. The heavyset women seem to be more relationship orientated - holding hands, cuddling, etc. But there is a price for that too.

What do you look for in a relationship?

[RedSauce]

You know you’re doing this all to yourself right? You claim to do everything while she does nothing, so stop doing everything then and she’ll have no choice but to pick up the slack; if she doesn’t (eventually, gotta cut her some slack) then she isn’t right for you.

[BLMUSER]

When I date attractive women there are usually a lot of men pursuing her. I have to produce a product or service in order for her to be interested in me. Otherwise, she will go to another man. For example, help her out paying the bills.

[RedSauce]

So yeah, you’re doing it yourself. Dude, a hot ass just isn’t worth that level of effort; she knows she doesn’t need that level of attention that she gets but because she still receives it anyway then she has to narrow her choices down, it’s an unintentional game that she has to play and you’re just another pawn on the board. That’s life bro, best to look elsewhere if all you’re hitting is the board and not the bullseye.

[slatyb]

How would I know. Maybe you are dating the wrong type. I’m happy to pay for dates, especially if I’m earning considerably more. I enjoy a woman’s company. Have you considered the possibility that you don’t really like women?

[watrewks]

I’m of the opinion that marriages and relationships should be effortless. A good woman is an accent to a man’s life.

[Anonymous]

Women have nothing else to offer but vagina and they know this, which is why they get so angry when it’s pointed out.

[Iron_Man]

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