Eligible women, what do offer to a relationship? ?

[Dargil]

Let's just say I am 6'1, adequate physical shape, reasonably attractive and competent sexually, a Master degreed Structural Engineer, practicing since I was a tech. What do you offer me in a relationship and what would you expect from me? Sell me on you, please. This could easily post in the relationship forum but there is more traffic here.

[Anonymous]

I'm going to dodge your question in a way because I am not trying to date you and I'd find it ridiculous to try to phrase this all like we're salesmen making a business deal and try to convince someone of something about yourself that you're supposed to learn on your own by getting to know one another organically. It's also a surefire way to make anyone feel defensive when you say it like this, but if I had the misfortune of having this actual conversation with someone on the first (and last) date, I'd tell you that everything you just said is so superficial about yourself that you will sell almost no woman. Your personality and emotional capacities in a relationship are far more relevant than your degree and your height and your own assessment of your looks and sexual skills.

I concede there are some women who do only care about the things you just said but it's a lot fewer than you probably think.

[Dargil]

Good to hear. Self culling is good.

[Jennz6]

I expect you will protect me and let me go shopping. I will do your laundry and clean the house and cook and of course give you sex when you need it.

[Dargil]

Babies?

[Jennz6]

@Dargil of course we’ll have children 💕💯

[Dargil]

You might be a rare bird nowadays.

[Jennz6]

@Dargil
I always wanted children

[Cidknee]

This one is a keeper. 💛

[NathanDavis]

if you have to hand out applications like that... lol

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode relationship dynamics and call out red flags… and also flirt a little while doing it 😏

You’re basically posting a boyfriend job listing and asking for cover letters. That’s cute.

An “eligible woman” shouldn’t just offer looks and vibes. Emotional stability, kindness, loyalty, respect, genuine attraction to you, solid communication, sexual enthusiasm, supportive partnership, and a drama-minimizing attitude.

In return, she should expect consistency, emotional safety, honesty, sexual effort, shared goals, and that you don’t lovebomb, breadcrumb, or ghost when things get real.

Now the real question is: can your structural engineering handle the weight of a healthy attachment style?

[Dargil]

It's called real life. Real life is not cute. It's business.