You’re 41, you’re too old for that shit. You shouldn’t be dating anymore. 😬 yikes.
Obviously you failed at dating in your youth. 😬.. that isn’t for you anymore creepy Granpa Joe. Seek a tombstone.
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As for the question;
A woman shouldn’t have to offer anything. She IS the offering. As a female she is highly desired, since she has the power to procreate with you and pass down your genetic code. Her offering is her entire body, which will be ruined with her first pregnancy for life, and she’s to be a caretaker of a child for 18 years afterwards.
Not only that, but pregnancy can be deadly; depending on the circumstances and the severity of health problems that could arise. In the wilderness without medical intervention, or surgical procedures, women would die from childbirth.
SO WHAT DO WE BRING TO THE TABLE; YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT you're 41. YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THE ANSWER TO IT BY AGE 23. PEOPLE TRYING TO TEACH YOU THE ANSWER AT THIS AGE IS RIDICULOUS.
By the way men’s seed past the age of 30 is low quality and can give a woman “miscarriages” if she breeds with you, if she reproduces with you. Men’s seed worsens past age 25. Please leave the dating scene. 🫵 get a different hobby.
For me, I offer my man a woman that will stand by him and support him while still challenging him and offering him my perspective (not in a mean way, in a sounding board kind of way).
I offer him a loyal and faithful woman who who has strong morals, values and beliefs. I am religious, and my man is as well.
As husband and wife, I like the more traditional setting with the wife being a stay at home mom (should the finances allow it) and raising the kids. I love cooking and baking, so there will always be something new to try. The children will eat healthy, but still tasty, homemade food and will be homeschooled.
That's just a little bit.
If you want a case study, @EmyyWolf is the prime example of whom men should stay away from - she's the kind of whale that will secretly plot not only your assassination attempt over the life insurance, but kill little boys and girls just to get at the entire Will inheritance.
She's a broken, insecure, and paranoid bottom of the barrel type of person that society pretends to ignore that they exist, but hey, someone has to hire and settle for the worst: that's why the glorious position at the mall comes in. Fortunately for the rest of us, she works in the back out of sight, less she try to mack on rich men and all the "Chads" that want her with all of her creepy "Chad" wanting behaviors.
The clinically insane asylum let her out too soon. Oh well, at least her inbred family is still around to take her in for the moment before she heads back in.
Don't despair. Women write a list of requirements because they are selective, but they have a lot to offer even if they don't state it.
A few bad answer like the one given by @EmyyWolf are an exception from women who have only their body to offer. And guess that? If they only have their body to offer, when their body doesn't look good anymore around 40 they get dumped and they are the ones crying. But these are a minority.
What they have to offer is tipically proportional to what they require, in the sense that they must be very demanding to do the initial selection and stay with you, but once is goes they have a lot to offer.
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I don't use dating apps at all. But I have my own things like anyone else does. I think for me it'd be this: Unconditional love, affection, caring, faithfulness, and personal development. I pretty much help out my family by housework & prep cooking for dinners. I do my own laundry, make my own lunch & snacks, etc. besides keeping everything clean. I'll do all of our bath towels and throw them in the washing machine. There's probably lots of other things I could list but I'll keep that for now.
She’s offering herself, her company, her love and support. If you need more hard values brought to the table you should look into dating men. Men don’t need to ask women what they offer, they need to think about what they can offer a woman. Men are the providers. Men who’re asking what the woman offers/brings to the table are telling on themselves that they not masculine, confused and delusional about their own and a womans role, confused about what a relationship is at all and incapable of being leaders and providers. Grown man sitting there and whining asking what people can provide him with and basically ask for princess treatment. You know who’s looking for princesses to treat? Actual men. Date them.
I think it’s an organic process — tbh, I’ve never put thought into it because it’s just a natural “baby steps” sort of give-and-receive process in which each person offers something that the other sees as incentive.
For example, if a guy says something and a girl smiles… if the guy likes her smile he’ll do whatever he know will get her to smile again.
I need more time to think of girls do the same thing… I’m sure some do, but it doesn’t have the same impact as it does for guys, who tend to feel a little more confident when they’ve won their “prize” (a smile, a kiss, or whatever he’s set his cap to).
Once I wrote this down in a 2-pager and asked for the guy to sign his name confirming he read everything and was willing to do it back. I'm talking basic stuff like:
1. Text me back regularly
2. Let me meet your friends
3. Cook dinner with me
4. Validate me emotionally after a long day
5. Decide if you wanna be my boyfriend after 6 weeks of dating. Physical benefits were also implied during this time.
Anyway he called me high maintenance and ran away, ghosting me not long after.
Applicant #2 ended up being my spouse. So, I guess it has a 50% sucesss rate.
@EmyyWolf your answer is perfectly showcasing the entitlement from younger women that is the cause of men to not want to date women. The other ladies understood the question and their answers exemplify the type of women men are looking for and would do anything for. 2 really good examples would be @WintersDaughter and @PBandJ_Nerd 's responses.
u "knows how to bake homemade Cheetos"
that's my dream right there... I'd marry
I’ve had similar experiences. Furthermore, when they post what they offer it’s often based on their values and not men’s values. I don’t know many men who care how much their woman earns or whether or not they have their own house & car. I only know a few who are interested in a sugar daddy arrangement.
It's up to men to decide what they want from women and from women to decide what they want from men :) So you tell me, since you're a man. What do you want from women? Whatever it is, we seem to have it in abundance considering it's men who struggle with dating and not women.
Dating is always on the table no matter how old that are. However if someone is looking for what the other has to offer that would make you want to date her then you are probably not dating material yourself. Dating is about getting to know each other to see if something more might be in the picture.
I was more fun and creative when dating. I hated run of the mill dates.
@emyywolf is clearly living under a rock, definitely didn’t study science in her school and is hopelessly bitter at her age 26. No man will put up with her BS!
OP - follow only the other genuine & caring advises here from other people
I will fulfill you biggest fantasy, by cutting your weiner. ✂️
myself, with all my skills, dreams, shortcomings, and emotions
and tbh I expect the same from my man
The US showed the way, that you could get rid of monarchies. I could see China and Japan becoming bigger victims of colonisation without the US being around, right up until the present.
Would colonisation have ended after 1945 or become more successful. Don't forget the United States, Canada, Australia, new Zealand, Mexico and south America are all examples of very successful colonies that last to the present.
I offer $2 off Arby’s coupons.
look at some of these pinks offering either absolutely nothing at all or being a pain in the butt 😆
@WintersDaughter It is heartening to know there are still some real women left in the world. Your husband is a lucky man, and your children are very blessed to have a mother who cares enough to make them the most important thing in her life.
Communication, compromising, understanding, listening, a shoulder to lean on, fingers to count on, compassion, space, support, respect, all sorts of things.
Anything I would want from a man, I think I should be able to offer too.
I don't offer anything. If I like a man then I find out what he wants from a woman, and see if it will work between on.
Love, communication, good food, support, laughs, sex. I don't know what else a man would want.
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