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You’re 41, you’re too old for that shit. You shouldn’t be dating anymore. 😬 yikes.
Obviously you failed at dating in your youth. 😬.. that isn’t for you anymore creepy Granpa Joe. Seek a tombstone.
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As for the question;
A woman shouldn’t have to offer anything. She IS the offering. As a female she is highly desired, since she has the power to procreate with you and pass down your genetic code. Her offering is her entire body, which will be ruined with her first pregnancy for life, and she’s to be a caretaker of a child for 18 years afterwards.
Not only that, but pregnancy can be deadly; depending on the circumstances and the severity of health problems that could arise. In the wilderness without medical intervention, or surgical procedures, women would die from childbirth.
SO WHAT DO WE BRING TO THE TABLE; YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW THE ANSWER TO THAT you're 41. YOU SHOULD HAVE KNOWN THE ANSWER TO IT BY AGE 23. PEOPLE TRYING TO TEACH YOU THE ANSWER AT THIS AGE IS RIDICULOUS.
By the way men’s seed past the age of 30 is low quality and can give a woman “miscarriages” if she breeds with you, if she reproduces with you. Men’s seed worsens past age 25. Please leave the dating scene. 🫵 get a different hobby.
I’ll also post this video I made, so the GREEN GRANDPAS can all get triggered
https://youtu.be/P5CbdmojAHw
For me, I offer my man a woman that will stand by him and support him while still challenging him and offering him my perspective (not in a mean way, in a sounding board kind of way).
I offer him a loyal and faithful woman who who has strong morals, values and beliefs. I am religious, and my man is as well.
As husband and wife, I like the more traditional setting with the wife being a stay at home mom (should the finances allow it) and raising the kids. I love cooking and baking, so there will always be something new to try. The children will eat healthy, but still tasty, homemade food and will be homeschooled.
That's just a little bit.
Sounds like you contribute well! 😎
I'd hope so 😂
I firmly believe that both people should fully contribute. 👍😎
Sounds like your husband is blessed
No husband yet, I was just saying what I'd offer to a husband
If you want a case study, @emyywolf is the prime example of whom men should stay away from - she's the kind of whale that will secretly plot not only your assassination attempt over the life insurance, but kill little boys and girls just to get at the entire Will inheritance.
She's a broken, insecure, and paranoid bottom of the barrel type of person that society pretends to ignore that they exist, but hey, someone has to hire and settle for the worst: that's why the glorious position at the mall comes in. Fortunately for the rest of us, she works in the back out of sight, less she try to mack on rich men and all the "Chads" that want her with all of her creepy "Chad" wanting behaviors.
The clinically insane asylum let her out too soon. Oh well, at least her inbred family is still around to take her in for the moment before she heads back in.
@thc1717 You should add that unfuckable loser @Apple1996 - she’s unworthy.
@Apple1996 We know. Apparently you still can’t read English even at the age of 27.
@Apple1996 Oh I get it, you’re just jealous that @inbox has money and success with women, while you still have the laborious task of email management.
@Apple1996 You sure that’s your only dream honey bun? You know, Inbox once told me that you told him that there’s nothing quite like dressing up like a horny nun and invited them back to your place for some “Xbox” play time. While you dominate them mercilessly, the best part is that screams of hot air pressed against your cheeks. The ones that resist, you give your special drink of Koolaid to.
@Apple1996
Damn, did I just start a war? LMAOOO! 😆
Don't despair. Women write a list of requirements because they are selective, but they have a lot to offer even if they don't state it.
A few bad answer like the one given by @emyywolf are an exception from women who have only their body to offer. And guess that? If they only have their body to offer, when their body doesn't look good anymore around 40 they get dumped and they are the ones crying. But these are a minority.
What they have to offer is tipically proportional to what they require, in the sense that they must be very demanding to do the initial selection and stay with you, but once is goes they have a lot to offer.
@Apple1996 did you even read her comments?
If she said to women what she said to men you wouldn't defend her
@Apple1996
She does bully men. Have you read her comments.
So do men really say this to women?
"You’re 41, you’re too old for that shit. You shouldn’t be dating anymore. yikes.
Obviously you failed at dating in your youth. .. that isn’t for you anymore creepy Granma. Seek a tombstone."
Tell me which man said such a thing to a woman on here?
Saying you're too old for dating is fine but...
See how she worded.
Read her comments before licking her ass.
@Apple1996 Apple, you know I got love for ya, but she has literally posted pictures of other people on here and annoyed me many times.
@Apple1996 she offends any male asker.
And her point of view is not all about having kids.
She said "you shouldn't be dating anymore. YIKES. CREEPY GRANDPA. Seek a tombstone"
Is this all about having kids?
@Apple1996 We’re not talking about all men and women. We’re talking about the Thing (1982) 😂😂😂😂 here on GAG pretending to be a hot shot 26 year old.
@Apple1996 I disagree. There’s a way to say something - if you start a fight, don’t complain if you can’t dish it out.
@Apple1996 it is fine to bully as long as you ask a question?
🤦♀️
@Apple1996 Mocking someone vs giving advice are two VERY different things - it doesn’t matter the context. It’s all about the intent behind the statement and trust me, the Thing (I’m still LOL over that) is intentionally mocking you.
@Apple1996 She literally wrote to the asker to go and kill himself - what universe do you live in to ever see that as good “advice”?
@Apple1996 …And women aren’t? There’s always women complaining on here about not finding the right guy or in the court room lol
@Apple1996 And like women who aren’t saying the same thing to men on here SMH
@Apple1996 the way she said? "Seek a tombstone?"
@Apple1996 Okay, you’re now doing what women do when they’re losing arguments - you’re breaking off into tangents in terms of specificity. Exceptions don’t equate to majority love.
@Apple1996 it is not about her advice that we have an issue rather than her bullying. Stop skipping that part
@Apple1996 and that advice applies only to men?
@Apple1996 for example?
@Apple1996 Some women said that to me too. But I still can see other forms of bullying too
@Apple1996 Just because you’ve been desensitized to it doesn’t change the narrative or the fact that the Thing still walks among us 😂😂😂😂😂
@Apple1996 Ahh, you sure you want to go down the insulting road?
@Apple1996 Will do, along with all the defective babies that you gave birth to recently - I now know where all the weak men come from now! LOL. Please don’t breed anymore.
@Apple1996 Arkham Asylum 1 - 800 - Walking Red - Flags
- Mankind (sorry I meant human kind ehem, such misogyny)
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I don't use dating apps at all. But I have my own things like anyone else does. I think for me it'd be this: Unconditional love, affection, caring, faithfulness, and personal development. I pretty much help out my family by housework & prep cooking for dinners. I do my own laundry, make my own lunch & snacks, etc. besides keeping everything clean. I'll do all of our bath towels and throw them in the washing machine. There's probably lots of other things I could list but I'll keep that for now.
She’s offering herself, her company, her love and support. If you need more hard values brought to the table you should look into dating men. Men don’t need to ask women what they offer, they need to think about what they can offer a woman. Men are the providers. Men who’re asking what the woman offers/brings to the table are telling on themselves that they not masculine, confused and delusional about their own and a womans role, confused about what a relationship is at all and incapable of being leaders and providers. Grown man sitting there and whining asking what people can provide him with and basically ask for princess treatment. You know who’s looking for princesses to treat? Actual men. Date them.
I think it’s an organic process — tbh, I’ve never put thought into it because it’s just a natural “baby steps” sort of give-and-receive process in which each person offers something that the other sees as incentive.
For example, if a guy says something and a girl smiles… if the guy likes her smile he’ll do whatever he know will get her to smile again.
I need more time to think of girls do the same thing… I’m sure some do, but it doesn’t have the same impact as it does for guys, who tend to feel a little more confident when they’ve won their “prize” (a smile, a kiss, or whatever he’s set his cap to).
Once I wrote this down in a 2-pager and asked for the guy to sign his name confirming he read everything and was willing to do it back. I'm talking basic stuff like:
1. Text me back regularly
2. Let me meet your friends
3. Cook dinner with me
4. Validate me emotionally after a long day
5. Decide if you wanna be my boyfriend after 6 weeks of dating. Physical benefits were also implied during this time.
Anyway he called me high maintenance and ran away, ghosting me not long after.
Applicant #2 ended up being my spouse. So, I guess it has a 50% sucesss rate.
It's up to men to decide what they want from women and from women to decide what they want from men :) So you tell me, since you're a man. What do you want from women? Whatever it is, we seem to have it in abundance considering it's men who struggle with dating and not women.
u "knows how to bake homemade Cheetos"
that's my dream right there... I'd marry
A good cook is always welcome.
I’ve had similar experiences. Furthermore, when they post what they offer it’s often based on their values and not men’s values. I don’t know many men who care how much their woman earns or whether or not they have their own house & car. I only know a few who are interested in a sugar daddy arrangement.
@emyywolf your answer is perfectly showcasing the entitlement from younger women that is the cause of men to not want to date women. The other ladies understood the question and their answers exemplify the type of women men are looking for and would do anything for. 2 really good examples would be @WintersDaughter and @PBandJ_Nerd 's responses.
@EmyyWolf he likely very well does know the answer. Most men do. Question is do most women? Or do most women think all they have to offer is themselves? If this same question was asked of men would your reply be equally as emphatic? Or would you have a genuine answer?
@EmyyWolf I didn't say empathic I said emphatic. Emphatic: showing or giving emphasis; expressing something forcibly and clearly
Dating is always on the table no matter how old that are. However if someone is looking for what the other has to offer that would make you want to date her then you are probably not dating material yourself. Dating is about getting to know each other to see if something more might be in the picture.
I was more fun and creative when dating. I hated run of the mill dates.
I agree, but what I was asking was what did you advertise as incentive?
Like, guys will flaunt their financial success, or religious knowledge, or their strength, or some sort of advantage they have to better take care of a woman…
I never had to use advertising..
Ok ok lol, what makes you a great wife?
🤨.. make me think about myself. Ummmmmm.. dependable, loyal, spontaneous, adventurous. Excellent listener who pays attention to details. Open minded.. Fair..
I'd have to list all the things that make me difficult to live with too though. Blunt honesty is a fault of mine. I hate sugar coating.
Nice 🙂
Me too lol. My dating profile is super blunt. 😜
Good. They can consider it fair warning.
My last wife though… 9 years in: But I thought you would change?
9 years prior: What you see is what you get, like it or leave.
Some woman think they can change men or they will change on their own. Who raises them this way? lol
Lunatics
Gonna pay more attention to the mothers in the future
I think that would be very smart
@emyywolf is clearly living under a rock, definitely didn’t study science in her school and is hopelessly bitter at her age 26. No man will put up with her BS!
OP - follow only the other genuine & caring advises here from other people
@Unit1 - No problem at all! I started calling out such bitter women long time ago who misuse and torture men in the name of MeToo and feminism. As a modern woman, I feel really sorry for the men who suffer because they had such women in their lives.
@Unit1 - not yet :) but I’m hoping they will at some point and I’ll stand ground for sure in support of Men!
@unit1 - talk of the devil and devil arrives lol
@Unit1 - lol, it’s better that way :)
I will fulfill you biggest fantasy, by cutting your weiner. ✂️
Tease
The US showed the way, that you could get rid of monarchies. I could see China and Japan becoming bigger victims of colonisation without the US being around, right up until the present.
Would colonisation have ended after 1945 or become more successful. Don't forget the United States, Canada, Australia, new Zealand, Mexico and south America are all examples of very successful colonies that last to the present.
myself, with all my skills, dreams, shortcomings, and emotions
and tbh I expect the same from my man
Love, communication, good food, support, laughs, sex. I don't know what else a man would want.
My companionship and a healthy relationship.
I offer $2 off Arby’s coupons.
You offer much more than most I’ve seen lol! 🙌
Hallelujah
Marry me 😍🤣
Abby surely can't be single with that package deal lol 📦👀
Abbycado cheese burger please, or chicken nuggets 🍔 🍗🐔... sauce has to be garlic or aioli please 🧄 mmmm 😋 unless it's no good, then I'll say "forget it, let's go to McD's or B King's instead " or hell even Guzman Gomez taco $3 lol 🌮🌮🌮🌮😆
Is this $2.00 per customer or per visit? I mean, we gonna be able to slice $4.00 of the total here or what?
I offer all myself. My body, my mind. I will serve him and make him happy
look at some of these pinks offering either absolutely nothing at all or being a pain in the butt 😆
If their answers about companionship, procreation and love aren't valid then what do you go into a relationship for? Genuinely curious lmao
@wiltingrosepetal that's not what i meant, however to address your question Real Love and companionship (and for some procreation) are pretty good reasons.
What i mean is Imagine there are 2 girls.
Girl 1 says stuff like "we don't need to offer anything to the boys. Men should (fill in the blank)"
Girl 2 says "i'm going to be a lovely and cute girlfriend"
Which girl will be chosen? What do you think?
My bad, I didn't understand your comment. I thought you meant all the responses, even the value ones, were offering nothing at all.
It's definitely entitled behaviour to say "We don't need to offer anything! Men should xyz!" because uhhhh what? Relationships are a two way street, why do you expect men to give you the world? 🤨 lmao
@wiltingrosepetal exactly.
its okay, lady, you are forgiven, although there's nothing to forgive 😇 misunderstandings happen.
@wiltingrosepetal As every boy knows, many girls EXPECT the world from their guy.
@WintersDaughter It is heartening to know there are still some real women left in the world. Your husband is a lucky man, and your children are very blessed to have a mother who cares enough to make them the most important thing in her life.
Communication, compromising, understanding, listening, a shoulder to lean on, fingers to count on, compassion, space, support, respect, all sorts of things.
Anything I would want from a man, I think I should be able to offer too.
I don't offer anything. If I like a man then I find out what he wants from a woman, and see if it will work between on.
Women inherently offer support, compassion, empathy, nurturing, companionship along with the ability to reproduce and give you children.
Dating isn't really about what you can offer each other besides offering love
And resources
@Apple1996
Most comments here is everyone mentioning me. 😂😂😂 lmao.
Like I thought grown men had a spine and didn’t get triggered like snowflakes ❄️. GOSH!
They're smooth, cuddly, fun and usually cool and calm and they smell better, usually, than most men. Most of the time, 😉😄
They're also a useful resource 😅 if you wanna go technical 🙂👀🫂🤑💰 🏠
When a woman says she is the offering then she has nothing to offer not even looks.
Isn’t the incentive, “have vagina, not afraid to use it” pretty much implied.
i'm curious what do men offer?
Men believe they have to offer money and protection to secure a relationship
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