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In particular if your love is the one being poor but is working like a real horse and busting his/her A$$ to make ends meet and finance his/her seemingly endless needs for medical services and treatments (but fortunately not disabled). When you ask about their financial situation, the answer is "It's not easy to say the least but there are no excuses" or something similar.

It appears to you like everybody is against you getting married to your man (or woman if you're into that). It's you VS the world. Did you know, that back in time significant differences in social classes practically was a reason to disapprove a marriage contract? Those, who fought for love nevertheless were apparently stuck officially in Concubinage. Or they figured to do something else.

Will you fight for your love or will you give up?
If you do not plan or intend to marry, then vote the same in the polls but instead of fighting for marriage it's about keeping the relationship going without marrying.

So, I am in the process of turning the culinary world on it’s head. Along with shaking up the combat fighting world (MMA, boxing and any type of prize fighting). I am going to do all of this on the land I am buying. And the plan is to have my lady and I run the gym/dojo together. And, me and my business partner’s run the farm, and restaurant together. They all like each other. Hell, they all love each other.

The problem is, my lady wants nothing to do with the restaurant. Except for eating there once in a while. And only one of my partners wants to be involved with the gym. But only to manage the fight team. And I told my one business partner. That it may not be possible.

My other partner’s said I shouldn’t let my lady. Have a piece of the gym. Because they didn’t want me to loose it if we break up.

Her remarks was, if it wasn’t for me he wouldn’t even think about opening the dojo/gym.

They are not to happy about that. The plan is to give her 55% of the gym. She wants less. But I want her to be able to make decisions with out me. Because 85% of my time will be with the restaurant.

Anyways, what would you do? Listen to your partner’s? Or stay the course?

When I first started boxing... It was an amazing experience. I had no idea what I was doing, but I learned fast.
I love feeling the sweat pour down my face, and how it flies off my brow from the force of trying to smash someone's skull open (makes you hit harder). It's also a good way to get a workout in, because the fatigue is offset by the motivation to keep on fighting.
It also just feels good... to be able to hurt someone, without going to jail. It's like being able to finally express yourself.
1000x better than therapy.
I thought about transitioning my gender to pursue a career in pro fighting. But realistically I have about 3x the level of "normal" testosterone for an American male. So that's not even necessary when even dudes are like women athletes compared to me.

What I mean is let say you had found this very nice guy or very nice girl, they are literally everything you have wanted in your ideal woman or ideal man. They gotten your ideal physical look down, they had gotten all of your requirements in which activities you were looking for in a man or woman. Not only that they also happened to be one of the kindest person you had met.
The person who you are dating with want to be able to officially spend the rest of their lives with you, by proposing you you with a very beautiful ring.

Everything has been going great because you managed to find the guy/girl you had always been dreaming of but it could even be better. It turns out you have been selected to protake in the job you had been begging to do. Everything you have been financially and studying for had now officially come to your doorstep, you will have the once and a chance to finally accomplish the career you have been literally preparing for. You have everything you have ever wanted your dream job and your dream partner but here is the problem you can't have both. Remember you fiance has gave you their heart and proposed to you, while your manager or investors have giving you their money and acknowledgement on your financial future. So you come to a big decision, which one seems more important to you, do you prefer spending the rest of your life with your future wife/husband or you really want to hopefully make big money and accept the job you been literally fighting to get? I know this is an extremely shallow answer but I rather take the money over the girl, to me sometimes relationship can either comes and goes but as somebody who was homeless one, I definitely wouldn't want to risk that again, I definitely take the job offer. But how about you ladies and gentlemen, which one do you want love or money?

Should emotional puzzle pieces align just right.. after all... easy feels good...

If so, it means you don't have to change...

... context...
I've had a friendzone that felt... so easy going, fun, no pain. I learned nothing... time went by... I don't recall changing as I wasn't challenged emotionally as I remained in my comfort zone... one conditioned from the wounds of life. Do you feel fine as you are? My "soul mate" as one described, was a match from hell. She enabled me to be suspended in my flawed state of being as time wasted away.

I've had two romantic relationships since wit lots of pain, the dangling friendzone was poison, but real issues resulted from my emotional flaws in intimate relationships.

My girlfriend today challenges me on moral, value, integrity. She saw foundation cracks early... testing my perceptions was hard, I denied when she tested... avoidance, perception. It hurt her greatly to struggle against "the waves" of my wounded subconscious. I changed, after hours or weeks of fighting.

Serious flaws in my deeper inner self were exposed like the archeologists uncover old relics. Wounds of long ago, stuff that felt "normal" in me, controlled me... limited me... guided me in the wrong directions. Fear... of intimacy, shame. Trusting the wrong people and mis trusting... traced to early life bonding issues with mother. Avoidant personality, passive aggressive... wounds from being sensitive and being hurt and inability to fight back. Just a few. The roots of all is deep emotional wounding in childhood. Point being...

I was warned about how relationships are... work. I didn't understand. Being challenged with love is good.. for your own and mutual growth! Does it end? Is life like a game of donkey kong... conquor one level to get to another, try not to fall down to the bottom... or jump when it's too hard.