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boyfriend of three years, good guy loyal from what I’ve known. We were talking about random stuff and I asked “have you seen me in shorts in public?” (He doesn’t like when I wear shorts in public) he said “yes” I said “when?” He said “in Santa Cruz” I have never worn shorts to Santa Cruz and we went only once together. I told him that I didn’t and he was sure I did with a Selena shirt (I’m a big Selena fan) I had some suspicion in my tone and he said “stop”. I do have some trust issues so I constantly look for things that don’t add up and this doesn’t. Anyone else have thoughts or am I overthinking?

She’s kind of a lead & one of the best, we work remotely & she’s responsive with answering my questions. Since last week & this week, I noticed something & wonder if it’s a genuine mistake. I sent her an IM & her usual response is “looking” meaning she’s checking the file I’m asking about. But last week & this week she typed “LOOKING”, caps always comes across as yelling. Then right away she edits the message & puts it in lowercase. She answers, her tone isn’t condescending, she continues to heart/like my msgs but that was strange. I’m kind of hesitant now, I need to be wary of my boss bringing this up. Ugh