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Search Results: main thing you look for in a guy
Why am I not excited about guys anymore? Should I go on more dates/try harder or should I just not date at all? Burned out?
I’m 23. Never had a serious relationship or one that lasted past a few months. They’ve started and ended mostly because 1) I don’t trust guys and many have not been good selections on my part, and 2) guys think I’m too...
TikiTook
Explorer Age: 31 (for a story) How would you react finding out your SO is an honest to god spy?
To make things a bit more amusing, we're assuming the scene takes place in a cliche spy movie mansion. You come home piss drunk after a decent night out. You headbutt the main door and your helpful butler Guillermo...
Compodulator
Xper 5 Age: 36 The Difficulty of Giving Up Being "a Player"
There's a hidden cost to being a player that is seldom talked about and that's what happens when it's time to leave The Game. Of course, by the game I'm referring to the idea of using a particular set of social skills in...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Why do I always struggle when I have to talk to white girls I like even though I don't seem to have this problem with other races/ethnicity?
I'm a white guy and here's the thing that I don't seem to understand. So when it comes to black/asian/latina girls I don't seem to be shy or struggle at all but when I have to talk to a white girl that I find attractive...
Anonymous
(25-29) How can you go from seeing a person only for his/her sexual attraction to start seeing that person as a person with qualities?
I mean that a guy for example stop seeing the lady he is with only as a sexual part of dating her (because visual and physical attraction is always like the first thing men and women sees when meeting a person) and start...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) What would be good female chilvary?
Another question got me thinking about this, as its not really addressed at all. My older bro bro was always told to be a "gentlemen," holding doors open, pulling out chairs, ladies first etc... I was taught more home...
oOsecret_starlandsOo
Xper 6 Age: 32 Friendzoned, but I still love her. I need advice. Please help and read the describtion first, please. Should I try again or let her go?
I'm 17 - THIS POST IS LONG BUT I APPRECIATE YOUR HELP PB = Cell phone background picture Notice: I translated this from German to English, it. Some things may sound kinder in German (idk). So I know my crush since...
Anonymous
(30-35) Types of Metal Fashion
I apologize to my readers for having to wait awhile for this take to come along. I used to make metal myTakes nearly every day, but lately I have been more busy with some stuff in life. So for a while this is how things...
themetalhead
Editor Age: 26 What do all the signs point to? Do you think he's interested?
Hey guys sorry if this is too long or confusing for you. If you need anything clarified, please ask me. Thank you in advanced for your honesty and advice. I've been working with this guy for about half a year now....
Anonymous
(25-29) What kind of a relationship is this?
So for a couple of months know, I have been close friends with this guy. I knew he was a flirt and I never flirted back. He does it with all the other girls in the class. Most of our communication started with...
Justforalittlewhile
Xper 2 Age: 26 (Part 2) I'm a 34 year old guy and I fancy my 53 year old hairdresser. Is she into me or not?
She then said she needed to do some Christmas shopping before Christmas so we could do that together and grab a coffee. I just thought 'great' this is it- she does like me. From then on this is what I don't get- and...
Leedsfrenchie
Xper 4 Age: 42 13 Critical Lessons From Thirteen Reasons Why
13 Reasons Why dramatizes the painful decision of young fictional teenage girl to kill herself. Without spoiling it, I found myself surprised by how regular her life was for a teenager. It wasn't really depressing to me...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 The Love Story Of My Life- Something That's Close To My Heart!
You read that title and clicked it straight thinking "Yeah! Here's the spice😜" We like to know about the love lives of others, don't we? So let's start curious beings lol - I met my first crush or what you can say the...
Halucinator
Editor Age: 24 The Full Guide For Women (And Men) On How To Detect A Disloyal Partner
OK! So lets start first with the proper definition for "cheating", since most people think its just "physical". When it comes to romantic relationships, or any other edge of intimacy. The term "cheating" relates mostly to...
r4ngeF
Xper 7 Age: 39 Guilty pleasure, women and boots, purses and other things?
So I've resisted spending crazy amounts of money on boots for years now. Main reasoning being that it doesn't get cold enough where I love to make them needed more than 14 days out of the year maybe and the rest of the...
sjoes006
Editor Age: 41 I’m confused, are we friends with benefits or more?
I’ve been sleeping with a guy for a little longer than 6 months, he is really nice and goodlooking. After the first time we both agreed that we weren’t looking for a relationship. Now i’m confused because he is giving me...
HurricaneM
Xper 4 Age: 30 Seven Different Christmas Gift-Bringers From Across The Globe🎄
Over centuries, if not longer, the number of various legends and Christmas legends associated with them have grown across the globe. For example, there is a tradition for children in Italy to be given gifts by an older...
Was it too soon, and did I mess up?
When talking to this girl after about a month I asked her what she expects to happen between us. She said she didn't know, but we still kept hanging out with each other. So after a little while maybe 3 months, I started...
Anonymous
(36-45) Does my guy friend like me , what are the signs?
Im a little confused with a guy friend not extremely close known a few months ago through my a friend of mine i have, i think he may like me but then he is a veru friendly caring person so he could be like this with...
Anonymous
(30-35) How To Use Dating Apps Succesfully
First of all I want to make it very clear that finding a potential partner through dating apps like Tinder is not the best way to go. I think context is very important in relationships, and more often than not, you won't...
surferfelix
Xper 6 Age: 30 