Why am I not excited about guys anymore? Should I go on more dates/try harder or should I just not date at all? Burned out?

TikiTook
I’m 23. Never had a serious relationship or one that lasted past a few months. They’ve started and ended mostly because 1) I don’t trust guys and many have not been good selections on my part, and 2) guys think I’m too closed off and never feel like they “know” me or I keep them at arms length and then they check out. Of course there are guys who have tried relentlessly with me but I wasn’t interested in them. I’m attractive enough and have my picking/ am hit on plenty... but I’m just so tired of all the games and all the energy I have wasted on failed attempts. It seems like people aren’t genuine anymore. Or like they dont have time to really get to know someone and take everything so personal, and check out because of their egos. I’ve tried and failed so many times the last couple years, I’m just so tired of it all. I don’t even know what kind of guy I’m wanting anymore. Actually, the main thing I’m looking for is someone with similar sense of humor and can make me laugh because right now that’s all I want, I just want to have fun with someone in a committed relationship and i never imagined in my life it would be as hard as it has been. Now even with genuine guys words mean nothing to me anymore, or the novelty of it all is just gone, and I’m so frustrated and fed up. Do I keep trying or just focus on myself and purposely turn down guys for a break from it all?
Anyone else feel how I do?

Why am I not excited about guys anymore? Should I go on more dates/try harder or should I just not date at all? Burned out?
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