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What are your thoughts/opinions about the 10 guy code truths below:

1. When he says there’s no spark or that he sees you as a friend:
It either means you need to up your bedroom game or he isn’t attracted to you.

2. When he says he’s not ready to commit:
He’s either waiting for the next best thing or you’re not the only girl he’s seeing.

3. If he doesn’t get jealous at all:
He either doesn’t care enough or he’s too busy looking for something new/more interesting.

4. If he gets too jealous:
He’s either insecure about losing his power over you and will make it appear that he's really keen or he’s up to no good himself and uses the jealousy as a cover story.

5. If he wants space:
He’s either met someone else or he just doesn’t like you enough.

6. He doesn’t introduce you to his family:
He doesn’t see you as ‘marriage material’ and you’re just there until he meets ‘the one’.

7. If he doesn’t want to be with you now but ‘maybe’ in the future:
He doesn’t love you but even if he tells you that he does, it isn’t enough to be with you now. He wants to play the field first and if he can’t find anything better he will be back.

8. He doesn’t want you going out when he goes out:
He's either got a date lined up and/or you’re interrupting his ‘pulling game’.

9. If he would rather spend time with his friends over you:
You’re basically being used for sex and/or he doesn’t like your company as much as he should.

10. He either doesn't text/call back or takes days on end to respond:
He doesn't want to talk to you (he's not too busy with work/school/uni) or he is busy hitting up his latest squeeze.

First off my boyfriend is not the type to flirt or mess on with other girls and my best mate isn't either. However it's been a couple of months after me and my boyfriend got together that my best mate has been interested in what we do as a couple. Which obviously isn't a bad thing but the thing is whatever she tells or asks me comes off in a way that she doesn't want me and my boyfriend to continue our relationship.
At first she would tell me what a 'terrible gf' I am because I would apparently not 'spend enough time with him' and that I should 'make more of an effort with him'. So I take this advice and start spending more time with him however today she tells me that I am 'too clingy', that 'he is bound to break up with me', and that 'he's not interested' in me. Straight after telling me he wasn't interested in me she then went on to say that she was going to message my boyfriend for some weird reason because her and my boyfriend are 'really close friends' which is ridiculous because he barely talks to her.
Also whenever she asks about what dates we go on she always tells me that 'it's cringe' and has also told me before that I have changed to become 'sensitive' since dating my boyfriend and that it is a negative effect on me?
I don't understand her logic but just want to know some opinions based on this? She has though before herself told me that someone had asked her whether she had a crush on my boyfriend and that she went no and wouldn't do that to me.