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Don't really know whether it is that 'underdog' situation, where your family/parents have not set you up well to begin with (if such a thing exists) - or whether it is the 'mismanagement of the village' but, as someone who is a high contributor to the general wellbeing (with all I have/can get and muster), I find it puzzling how little, if any, relationship reward this gets me.

We are not talking about me wanting 17 castles, 50 supercars and a different supermodel girlfriend each day or week - simple appreciation sufficient to find someone I'd be happy with, for a genuinely affectionate relationship, would do. Yet it seems to find meaningless sex, or to pursue having two girlfriends, or some other form of extreme behaviour, is expected of me (I say it as someone who is easily a 10 given some motivation to be so - both in intellect, applied, and in athletics/aesthetics). And I keep bumping into crooks, in terms of societal value, leeches, who do far far better than me (at least on the surface, the rewards they get from 'the village' are far far greater, their contribution blatantly subzero - takers, not givers).

What is it in people that makes them appease those who are against them and disregard those who are helping them?

Since we are in the 21st century there have been more and more single mothers than ever before. Last I checked when my grandparents got married they stuck it together till death did them apart. Yet it seems that, sex is regarded now days as casual with little regard for the consequences. I think it's society, girl get's knocked up feminism tells men that women don't need them so they jump ship and let the women hack it since she's strong enough. Men are taught to be weak pushovers to fold over and run when the fighting gets tough with no father figures teaching men to take a stand to be strong. There are no family values or conservative "A" typical middle class families have been replaced with a progressive approach to "Anything goes family system". A man of the house is suppose to let his wife's Co-worker come and fuck his wife as he sleeps on the couch system.