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I was with a girl for about 5 months and about 2 months in she told me she done drugs with her mother and friend when she was 13-14 this made me uncomfortable as I have never and will never touch drugs as I cannot being to understand why her mother would do drugs with 2 13-14 year olds and all they wanted to do was defend themselves and say they know what they did was wrong but it was ages ago but they call this friend a druggie and when he tried to OD she was saying good hopefully he does it properly next time but they both had a chance to stop him from doing drugs and instead decided to join it makes it worse because this is someone else’s kid and my ex had some mental health issues and the mother is working at a primary school with mentally ill children and another time my ex told me she sent nudes to a guy 5 months before meeting me and it made me uncomfortable I asked if she was still in contact with him because all she had to say about him is bad she said no but I found out who it was and saw that she had him on Insta I confronted her about it and gave her the chance to come clean but she lied about it again and then she said he was her cousin so I really don’t know what to think about it but I was still hurt she lied

At first I'm from Asia in Muslim country, I mean totally different culture. I meet a girl about 3 years ago. I'm in holiday and she traveled there. we start talking, because both don't have a time, accept to spend a time for better relationships with specific marriage goal. I never want a child cause of higher risk of genetic issues, she asked for support that's all. (I'm 36 and she has 24 and please consider it the traditional way for marriage have a lots of cost even she denied to have a wedding ceremony it's very good and unusual).

Considered we never said we are falling in love but we like each other.
At the first month I feeling she hide something, I don't try to ask about 2 years but try to understand and support her after 2 years it's clear for me why she ask support.
It's not common to be homeless here, the family is very important to us.
The only reason of she asked for support cause she has a very hard life since she is a kid (bad atmosphere، addicted father and mother take care of all 3child) till right now.

when I asked 3years ago about going for official tradition she refused after all I understand the most of the issues are commercial and she has a poor family. She is very nice to me and I seen that she trying to be a better partner and it's important for us.

She denied to have a meeting for therapy or any kind of help (she doesn't believe such a way just wanted to talking but we can't figure out yet and I very tired)

for starting our life she start working at 2jobs and I only have a 2 hours sleep per day for 1 and half year.