Search Results: nervous around a guy

Girls, single male 26 never had a long term relationship and struggling to find someone so need advice on what I could potentially change to improve?

I haven't really done this before so bare with my post & I will try to express it clear enough, just seeking some advice from girls out there I am 26 years old, work as a qualified civil engineer at a good company, I come...

Daniel1711

Xper 2 Age: 30

Should I text him again?

So this guy comes in my job. I’ve seen him around he’s pretty popular on campus. Very cute a frat guy. He asks if I want his number. I wasn’t trying to humble him or anything but I was nervous I always thought he was...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do the majority of girls have trouble being themselves with me compared to most guys?

I've noticed that in group settings that the majority of girls tend to either feel uncomfortable, distant,"nervous", aloof, or get bitchy if I'm around in said group I'm not overweight nor dress sloppy but average looking...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do I make guys nervous? How do I make them less nervous around me?

I get the sense that a lot of guys get nervous or awkward around me. I can feel them getting Awkward and not super natural and relaxed. How can I make them less nervous around me? what is causing this behavior?

Anonymous

(18-24)

Is it obvious she wants a lesbian relationship with me?

I kinda felt something with this girl. I am bi and she doesn’t know that but she knows I am in a relationship with a guy ( he lets me be with girls ). She has a partner whos trans and who she doesn’t rlly mention. She’s...

Helloeriss01

Xper 7 Age: 25

How to be more comfortable around each other?

There is a guy i like for long time. We finally got a bit closer. Always when we meet we kiss and hug. Two times we make out. He asked me out so we are planning to go for a walk. But often times it feels like we are still...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I give it one more try?

so I kind of fumbled this guy I think is really cute. I’ve seen him around campus but never really had a conversation. he sees me at work and asks for my number but I ignore because I was way to nervous. so I follow him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is he playing games with me?

When a guy tires hard to get me (after I ingore him), and I still ingore him (he gives me many mixed signs + he looks at girls and he is very attracted to them + he never talks with me or try to make any move, he just...

Milania88

Xper 1 Age: 19

How to get out from these circle?

I have got a crush on a guy at my school and I was really trying so hard to get, but I see he seems attracted to me. and then I stare at his friend and then I see everything change as he and his friend all of them trying...

Milania88

Xper 1 Age: 19

Girls, Do girls also get "nervous" around ugly guys?

I've noticed that girls tend to get very distant, aggressive, cold,& standoffish if we have to speak to each other a lot of eye blinking if they happen to stare at me as well

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys advice please? Am I missing something?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really

Hey, so I met a guy around 7 yr ago while I was working in a restaurant, he asked for my number &then a few weeks later I got a train to see him for the weekend. We got on really really well but I didn’t sleep with him as wernt officially dating, we spoke for months after but I ended up going travelling& when I got back he had a girlfriend, I ended up in a 3 year relationship but then we both somehow ended up single at the same time, he contacted me (as must have seen I deleted all photos of ex) we went on a date and the date was just amazing I can’t explain the butterfly feeling he gives me. Still didn’t sleep with him as I’m old fashioned and we weren’t exclusive.. anyways after the date I got back with my ex and we didn’t speak. A year later I’m single & he gets in touch asking if I’m okay and randomly turned up at my house with flowers to cheer me up. we end up talking for a few weeks and he’s asking me why I never make effort to talk to him and why he’s always chasing me (he’s a basketball player so I’m kind of wary that he’s talking to loads of other girls & I’m a bit shy I’m nowhere near as hot) by the way we still haven’t had sex but just having a really nice connection. Again he goes radio Silent on me.. so fast forward a few months and he rings me drunk saying I’m the only person he’s ever loved and he’s so nervous around me etc.. I thought I would make more effort with him so I start finally messaging first and stuff and we plan to have a night away and we talk about having sex & it gets quiet passionate. then again he goes radio silent. so a month goes by & after hearing nothing from him he pops up merry Christmas I love you & one day your going to be my wife which is random as hell since he practically ghosted me twice this year? Then after talking every night on the phone he’s gone silent again? am I reading this all wrong does he even like me or what? or am I just not making enough effort? & no he doesn’t have a wife or a girlfriend I know his family

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Flirting

How can I be more confident talking to a man I really like?

I was with my ex from 16-27 so if I’ve been single af for the last 3 years and have lost a lot of my confidence. I am very shy and nervous around guys now. I met this guy at work a year ago but noticed I act so...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is it normal for a guy to take his time on dates and getting to know me or is he emotionally unavailable?

I work with this guy whom we recently hung out and went to dinner. He asked, and We didn’t call it a date but everything he did that night screamed date; picking me up, paying for dinner, opening the car door for me,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

How old were you when you learned how to drive and what was the experience like?

And who taught you how to drive? Where did you first drive (i. e., parking lot or around town)? Were you nervous or excited? The first time I learned to drive was just a few days after my 15th birthday after my mom took...

Lucy68

Yoda Age: 28

How do I get over a crush? I thought I had moved on, but, I'm wrong! When I see her now, I'm not myself, not confident, too stiff, etc, What do I do?

I attended d same high schl with this girl, Josephine, was a class ahead, am a year older, attend d same church and both were members of d choir. I didn't take any interest in her as I didn't like her. We entered our...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Girls, why would you ask a guy why he gets nervous around you?

Assuming its a you dont know, but see regularly but never really talk to. So a familiar face. Why would you ask him why he gets nervous?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Should I have left her this?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I have left her a secret note?

I felt something with this girl. I am bi and she doesn’t know that but she knows I am in a relationship with a guy ( he lets me be with girls ). She has a partner whos trans and who she doesn’t rlly mention. She’s a...

Anonymous

(25-29)