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There's a girl I know who is very beautiful and does modeling work for magazines & online. When we were hanging out a while back she told me about how sometimes she goes on dinner dates with older men for money. I held back my opinions and decided to ask questions about it, she said it's non sexual and she meets up just for the dinner like a pretend girlfriend experience (she would use a sugar baby site & a fake name for that kind of stuff).

The logic doesn't really make any sense because I personally wouldn't spend 200 to 500 dollars just to go on a date with a very attractive woman with sex not being apart of the equation... She asked me if I'd ever date someone who does that and I didn't know how to respond because instinctually I wanted to say "no" but at the same time I'm very sexually attracted to her and didn't want to make her feel bad or ruin my chances.

Anyways this came to mind again because she recently told me about one of these dates she went on, the guy messaged her on IG saying he'd pay her $500 just to go out for dinner & drinks, she said he looked & sounded like Borat. We just kind of made fun of it while I did some shitty Borat impersonations but I felt confused about the whole situation and thought about that question she asked me a while back.

I know this sounds stupid and I probably shouldn't even care, but I kind of like her and she seems to kind of like me - so I figured I'd ask this question on here and forget about it lol

I do not feel good about asking this. It makes me feel slimy and gross.

I am especially unhappy with having to ask so bluntly and crassly; in order to fit the one-sentence format for a GAG "question title".

I would like to explain why I am posting this. ( Feel free to just answer. Nothing below is critical for you to know).

I've always had many female friends. Most of my closest friendships since I was 13 years old have been friendships with women. I'm generally someone who people feel comfortable confiding in. I have known SO many wonderful women who have been in abusive relationships. I am as intimately familiar with the scars that can leave on a woman's psyche as anyone can be, short of first-hand experience or formal training.

On GAG I've spoken to dozens of women who were:
-In abusive relationships;
-had escaped from an abusive relationship;
-were currently in the early stages of a relationship with a guy who was showing signs he was likely to be abusive;
- or were in relationships which were clearly abusive, but were in denial; or genuinely didn't realize their relationship was "abusive."

The nature of abuse varies widely; as does the "sort" of woman. It varies from a boyfriend who is emotionally manipulative and has boundary issues... all the way up to sadists monsters who would quite literally torture their girlfriends. I have nightmares about some of these women's stories (three of them in particular).

I am under no illusions about abusive relationships being uncommon. That upsets me more than I can put into words. I also know that there have been attempts to find out "just how common". I also understand that a GAG poll is far from scientific.

**I would really appreciate if you would click an answer to the "poll" even if you have no inclination to write anything. Women who haven't been in abusive relationships, please just click that option before moving on to the next question.**

Thanks

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