boyfriend: I've known him for 5 years now and we have been friends all those years. I enjoy my time around him, we have similar interests in games, art. anime, etc. He has helped me with numerous stressful situations that have happened in my life so far. I was going to date him sooner, but due to being sexually assaulted my Senior year of high school, I took a break from dating for awhile. During that time, he helped me through what I was going through and was very supportive and never once pressured me into being with him. Once I felt like I got to a good point, I decided to ask him out, to which he said "yes". Ever since then, we have been dating since about February, I think. There was also the time where my dad was very sick in the hospital and he comforted me and stayed and talked to me until I was okay.
Friend: I haven't known him as long as I have known my boyfriend. I've known him for a couple months. When we talked, I felt like we instantly clicked. Unlike my boyfriend, he is very slow when it comes to responding to text, he doesn't exactly have the greatest attention span either. I could be talking to him, he'll leave for hours, and then come back. Which is annoying, but other than that, he's nice, he talks to me about general life topics, we don't exactly have the same taste in games like me and my boyfriend do. And from what he has told me, he has terrible trust issues due to an ex girlfriend in the past cheating on him. And also unlike my boyfriend, I kind of feel like he pressures me into doing a lot of things I don't exactly want to do. He said that he likes me and wants to be with me. And a lot of the time, it feels like either he is going to just treat me like garbage if I don't go out with him.
Never had issues with my boyfriend until I started talking to this other guy who has been making me question everything about my relationship.
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