Marrying the leader of a small village/community vs marrying a clerk in Germany?

[Anonymous]

What would you choose between the two girls/boys if they both love you.

Boy A: He is humble but destined to be the community leader in Georgia. Very competitive and caring for his people and well being of the world in general. Doesn't spend much on himself but loves to spend on others. Intelligent unconventionally and educated in agriculture and business practices has a good sense. The guy thinks he can bring the city to his village instead of just leaving everything for the city life. Life is adventerous and thrilling with new people to guide and helping courts and listening to the people's problems.

Boy B: He is from the city and living as Clerk in Berlin. Has to do 9-5 job. Also competitive but just gets by his life. His goal was to be a City dweller. Spends on good cars and apartments. Intelligent and is efficient but not much political influence in the community. Life is mundane but very routinely and stable.

Which one would you choose and why if they both said they love you?

Think of them as girls in case of boys.

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Probably Boy A. Both men honestly sound great, but what draws me to Boy A are these:

“humble” - humility is very important

“caring for people and the world in general” - meaning he’s compassionate

“loves to spend on others” - meaning he’s generous

Intelligent and educated and has good sense - good traits to possess as a leader, and especially if there was a chance of failure

“thinks he can bring the city to his village instead of just leaving everything for the city life” - ambitious

“Life is adventerous and thrilling with new people to guide and helping courts and listening to the people's problems.”

[Asker]

Do you really think so?
I thought girls like someone who has an easy stable life?
You do understand Boy A won't be able to succeed in his life in most of his goals

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Yes, a lot of girls do desire someone whose easy and stable. But a lot of men underestimate the fact that ambition is very attractive. I love when a man knows what he wants and works hard to achieve it, even though he is more likely to fail.

[Asker]

Hey are you for real?
I mean you really like it that way? You know you would be trapped in a difficult life. I mean come on you know Guy A is just an ass for thinking too big. He might live in poverty for all we know. Would you really like to spend the rest of your life with him with him being in trouble trying to live by. Political problems and so on and so forth?

[XHopelessRomanticX]

Some people are worth struggling with. He may be an ass for dreaming big, but look at all the other qualities I listed. He may fail on the career front, but the qualities I listed are things I would want in a husband and the father of my future children.

[Asker]

😔 I thought people like you are no more. I sent you a pm too. Please answer that too.

And sorry I heard of your break up on your question. But you are really something.

[jennifer_bloom]

Is this the test where the nice sounding option is a war criminal and the bad sounding option is a war hero? Someone sent me that in an email in high school.

[Asker]

No lol 😂. None of that. There is no catch. I am asking because it's something I want to decide. There is a crossroad between these two brothers.

[Anonymous]

I'd marry the clerk in Germany.

[Asker]

🙂 is it because it's going to be a girl? What if the gender roles were changed?