Anyways, anytime this happens, I tell my boyfriend both out of respect (since some of these guys try and contact me through my social media) and also to laugh at it. Not to specifically laugh at the guys who asked me out, but laugh because no matter what guy approaches me, I will only ever want my boyfriend. I feel like I’ve made it very clear to him that’s how I feel, and I think he understands because he tells me he’s not worried that anything would happen between me and these men. I worry though because I don’t want him to ever feel threatened in any way, I want him to know I’ll always choose him. I thought about it, and I think I would be uncomfortable if he told me about all the girls coming after him. I’d feel he was trying to prove to me there are other options or something. So should I stop telling him when this stuff with other guys happens? I know I’m overthinking, but I just want to be a good girlfriend.
Should I or should I not tell my boyfriend when other guys hit on me/ask me out?
Anyways, anytime this happens, I tell my boyfriend both out of respect (since some of these guys try and contact me through my social media) and also to laugh at it. Not to specifically laugh at the guys who asked me out, but laugh because no matter what guy approaches me, I will only ever want my boyfriend. I feel like I’ve made it very clear to him that’s how I feel, and I think he understands because he tells me he’s not worried that anything would happen between me and these men. I worry though because I don’t want him to ever feel threatened in any way, I want him to know I’ll always choose him. I thought about it, and I think I would be uncomfortable if he told me about all the girls coming after him. I’d feel he was trying to prove to me there are other options or something. So should I stop telling him when this stuff with other guys happens? I know I’m overthinking, but I just want to be a good girlfriend.