Search Results: love vs. sex

Maslow/self-actualisation vs peace/calm/love/pleasure/tranquility?

Anyone noticed how the pop culture strongly, if not exclusively, bases itself on Maslow (food/shelter/heating - and then sex - and through sex self-actualisation/establishing) and how it is taken as almost insane, and...

ThatNoUVAtYourEyes

Xper 5 Age: 48

Should "Opposite sex social aptitude education", or teaching men how to interact with, meet and respect women be mandatory for men?

We can talk about how we believe women are or should be another time, I would like to propose that all boys through high school go "Opposite sex social aptitude education". A form of "charm school". Of course those who...

Mandycandy42

Yoda Age: 31

I deeply hate the friendzone. But I seriously would like to start a relationship as friends first?

I have never in my life gotten into a relationship by being “friends first” with a woman (including long term relationships). Sex usually happened anywhere from 1 to 3 dates. The thing is I really enjoy getting to...

Anonymous

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Home Chats

The True Origin and Intent of the Term 'INCEL'

Okay, so I came across another #INCEL question (this one asked by a presumably self-labelled INCEL, but it was not specified), and frankly, the responses prompted this take. Some things need to be clarified. Let me first...

AmandaYVR

Editor Age: 53

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Is there a difference between teaching your kids that God loves them vs. homosexuality is an acceptable form of behavior?

I was at a friend's house yesterday and he was telling his kids how much God loves them. I was at another buddy's house last month and he was telling his kids that same-sex marriages are normal. I realized both of them...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I was at a friend's house yesterday and he was telling his kids how much God loves them. I was at another buddy's house last month and he was telling his kids that same-sex marriages

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Dating

Dating a Computer Scientist 101

If you should ever find yourself in the unfortunate situation of dating a computer scientist, you'll want to fully prepare yourself for the experience of a lifetime. Although they may at first seem about as interesting as...

Anonymous

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Marriage & Weddings

What did the movie “Marriage Story” teach you about the opposite sex?

Basically, the movie is a about this married couple, Nicole and Charlie, who are in the middle of getting a divorce. Charlie cheated, but his defense was that he could have done worse and as selfish as he was to believe...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do guys tend to pick the more simple and easy woman over the wild, more unpredictable woman despite feeling more in love with the wilder one?

To expand- I was watching Sex and The City, and at the end of season 2 they mentioned the movie The Way We Were, where the man ultimately chooses to be with (as they say) the woman with the straight hair who is simple and...

paradiseonearth93

Xper 6 Age: 33

The Most Influential Black People in the History of the United States of America (Part 2)

We are in Black History Month in the United States of America(USA). Just as a premise, I'm not a black person myself, and I'm not writing this as a way to virtue signal, and this isn't performative activism. I'm not even...

EnglishArtsteacher

Editor Age: 35

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Cuddling vs. Making love?

What is more meaningful, cuddling or sex? I've been seeing a man for a couple years. We have a very good connection, sex every week or 2 weeks (Im divorced with kids half the time). He’s divorced (6 years now, his ex-wife...

DezDez23

Xper 3 Age: 54

A partner with loves sex but has little money vs a partner who has money but no interest in sex:who would you choose and why?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Observations on Behavior in Dating: A Battle Between the Sexes

This may trigger some people because whether you want to admit it or not, everyone does at least a few of these things when dating. I am equally guilty of doing some of these things too. As I have been on this site for a...

DexWest

Xper 7 Age: 33

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Dating

Two months on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo - What I've taken away for myself [online dating]

I spent a lot of time on Badoo, Tinder and Lovoo these past few weeks and want to share my stunning and interesting findings with you. I chatted in German, my mother tongue, at least 95% of the time, but I believe that my...

tallandsweet

Editor Age: 24

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Interview

What Relationship Experts Think About Love

There is no more complicated and yet desired thing like love. To have a perfect relationship is the goal of many people but not everyone knows what this perfection consists of, how to find the ideal partner and even...

Desconhecida

Influencer Age: 39

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At Home

The DILEMMA of Pro Life vs Pro Choice.

Pro life while its morally right, seems so ignorant of what happens to the kid is out of the womb. And if the parents don't have the money or resources to care for the kid. Throwing kids into a barely functioning foster...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Dating

What Women REALLY Look For/How Both Genders Lack Maturity/Why Bad Boys Are AMAZING

3 Things Being Addressed and Combined: 1) What we really want and why guys' logical standard views on it are always false 2) How women are just as immature as men at certain times in life and how that is often...

Yads_Is_Back

Guru Age: 29

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Dating advice: To the girl who wants to marry greatly!

In a university project I did interviewing women between 16-30, and asking them how their ideally planned life would go, the answers I got were pretty unanimous: be successful yourself, and be with an even more successful...

Anonymous

(18-24)

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