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Hope nobody takes this the wrong way I'm not tryingtto be an ass here. Ok seriously, anyone else feel kind of embarrassed for Caitlyn? I understand a man wanting to be a female but to transform yourself into something that doesn't look 100% female seems odd. If we had the technology to change a man into a legit female I'd be ok with that. Transgenders to be I think live in a delusion.

There is nothing wrong with them wanting to be female, it's the flawed transformation that bothers me. They truly aren't 100% female and never experienced the chemical reactions and mental side of being a true female.

Reading stories on this form you can clearing see that women think differently, handle things differently, have different body language and speak different in wording. Transgender women can never truly understand just what it is to be female without having a true female functioning body.

Again I have NOTHING against people that wish to become another gender. It's the flawed idea that modding your body makes you another gender I have a problem with. I do wish we had the advance tech that could transform them down on a cell level, transform their bone and brain, but we don't. Maybe transgender people can try to be happy staying the gender they already are. Just accept that life isn't fair and be happy with your given gender.

Ok so I have this female friend who has really been a mystery to me from the start. We met 4-5 years ago and I developed a HUGE crush on her which lasted about a year. When I told her how I felt she friendzoned me. I went along with it and made a genuine effort to be her friend. I've noticed however that I seem to be doing all the work in the friendship. I initiate 70-90% of the conversations. I make most of the arrangements for us to hang out. She pretty much never calls me back, even when she says she will. Quite frankly, it seems like she isn't even interested in being my friend. When we talk she usually seems distracted/disinterested and doesn't contribute much to the conversation or give me much to work off of (to expand the conversation). I hardly ever seem to be the cause for her feeling any sort of positive emotions. Whenever I try to give her space it's like she doesn't even remember I exist. If I say something like "Am I bothering you?" or "I'm sorry to distract you, I'll talk to you later" she always gets upset and accuses me of being insecure. She says I'm not bothering her and that she has no problem talking with me, even though the vibes and body language I'm reading say otherwise. Granted I'm bad at reading people but I'm not completely ignorant. I'm considering straight up telling her I'm sick of whatever this (our relationship) is and that I'm done and don't want to be friends anymore. But then I think I might be overreacting. What do you guys think she's feeling?