Search Results: when youre just not that into a girl

So basically I've been speaking to this girl and I really like her and she was going on holiday and can't access Snapchat for it. She said "Youre probably glad cos I bet I'm annoying you talking to you so much". Is that a sign or am I reading too much into something. And she defo isn't annoying hahah

Female hypergamy is essentially boils down to women will only see you as a potential mate if they perceive you are better than them.
It's one of the reasons assholes do better than nice guys in getting women and not all the feminist propaganda that nice guys aren't really nice but because assholes disrespect and don't care about a girls opinion which sets off in the woman's brain that he must be better than her.

To expand on this point, if done to early on and without the woman thinking she earned it is perceives by her as a male pandering up to her to get sex/relationship and not actual kindness. Women only usually perceive kind gestures as just that once they've given up sex and the man still continues being sweet/kind to them.

Now the thing about hyper gamy with women is it's not tied only to one thing like physical or wealth but everything including attitude. A man does not necessarily need to tick off being better in all areas but enough that it is drilled into a woman's psyche that he is better than her. It's for this reason a guy can be shorter than a girl but rich, and confident and get the girl.


We see hypergamy of women in their dating preference such as wanting men who make more money than them, be taller than them, higher social status, more confident, more accomplished than her, more exciting live etc.

The problem with hypergamy is as a woman rises up in the world and become better the amount of men who matches her criteria of being on her level or more becomes smaller and smaller. This leads to fewer pool of men available for her to select making it frustrating. With more women graduating from college than men this means that the dating pool for college graduate women are going to be smaller.

It's Not Your Imagination, Single Women: There Literally Aren't Enough Men Out There

The amount of guys who are still virgins, and never have a girlfriend is rampant, and you get some clear incite into this from guys here who state they've never kissed a girl, or are still virgins. More so with boom of cam girl's, many men have opted out in pursuing for a real loving relationship and settle for some random girl being nice to them over the internet in exchange for giving her cash.

Could this article give incite into female hypergamy, and perhaps women's views on what they think qualify as a man to actually be in a relationship with. Many people give reference to the 80/20 rule in which women all coddle around a small clique of men to have sex/relationship with. So when women say they aren't enough men around, are they saying they aren't enough high quality tall,, rich, handsome men around to commit/have sex with them?

What do you think?

A little snippit from the article:

"This got Birger, a former economics writer for Fortune and Money, thinking: How could a man of that age be so cavalier about casting aside such an amazing woman? And why do we all have similar stories of incredible female friends trapped for years in dating hell? Why are there so many great single women? Where are all the great single men?"

Link:https://www.vice.com/read/youre-single-because-there-arent-enough-men-253