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The 20/80 rule applies in a lot of things. For men, there's a belief that 20% of them get 80% of all the sex. Basically most women only go for the top 20% of men based on physiques, social status and wealth.

However it puzzles me about what makes some of these women think that they will get men of that calibre when they are probably not in the top 20% material in the dating pool.

A lot of women want men to earn more, be taller, be more successful, be more funny who can make them laugh, more intelligent, more social than they are. In some cases, more physically beautiful than the woman. Guys get rejected for having flaws in any of the above area. To be the top 20%, it almost means he has to be flawless.

If we can quantify physiques, intelligence, social status and wealth into stat points, a lot of these women don't even measure up to the type of guys they are after.

If a guy exhibits a lot if not all the above traits in your eyes ladies, then he probably is better than you and you don't measure up. Why would someone like him find you intriguing and want to be with you for long? He would be after the top 20% of the women pool.

It just confuses me why some women would bother freezing their eggs, I mean why is it so hard for some of you to find the right guy when there are plenty of good guys around. They may have not have strengths in all the points mentioned that are relevant to you, but surely most would have other qualities. So why be so picky, especially when you are not flawless yourself?

Being able to pay the ridiculous fees for egg freezing implies these women have reached a certain level of financial success on their own. They are probably highly educated.

If the believe is that the top 20% men don't like top 20% women because they are too dominant, then this implies that these same women could have found a guy more established then they were before they got to the top too. Please educate me what the excuse is?

see is just how unhealthy this hobby of yours is. You spend most of the day making post that belittle, Stereotype, catagorize or put men in a box. you then (along with your movement) claim this is wrong when is happens to women. the very things a lot of girls would do to men without hesitation. The difference between the sexes is accountability, integrity, and responsibility. these determine charater traits and menset. however a lot of girls won't amit or see that a lot of problems they have with the opposite sex is because of the choices they make with them and how/why they allow them into their lives. a lot of girls just are not accountable or responsible when dealing or choosing men that they spend time with. then they blame the men. For a choice that they made with men. That makes no since. Especially when you see how picky they are in comparison to men. It just seems like this movement uses guilt of the bad things that men have done to women to use fear and have control over them. Women dont seem to feel as guilty when they treat men wrong. And just to prove ourselves we end up spending time and money we never get back setting us behind (another thing girls act like is acceptable). And is seems like the more men give the more girls expect, whether is be the mans body or money they want more for simply being a women. The biggest things you dont realize is 1. I used to be a feminist, then when I found out this truth and was treated like crap. I realized that this was just a movement for control and power. You see they only wanted guys they could use for something and I learned to pick up on that pattern. 2. Im not the only guy who realizes this, a lot of men will lie and defend this cause because of guilt or they want happiness in their home, but we can't live in the past. If men are willing to change to make socitey equal then girls have to do the same. using guilt just seems to be a way for feminist to make men question their morailty but ignore womens.

I've been involve with women before who i eventually found out were married and they didn't give a shit about their husband their husband. One girl i remember even said "He doesn't care, he knows i can leave him at any time" about her husband who was supporting her while she went back to school. I've seen other instances where a girls boyfriend was in vicinity and she would blatantly flirt, and give the go to signals of wanting to fuck a handsome man.After reading some comments I've realize that other male gagers have similar experience. Here are there quotes

"As a good looking male I see women ignore their boyfriends/husbands to try and get my attention. Its sickening. There are some rare occasions where the women is faithful to her partner by not being such a fan girl. Women are WAY more picky than males. I wondered if I was good looking I would never get the time of day or attention of any female so when they I go outside I ignore them. There are only a few females I know out there that aren't so shallow."

Another gager:

"I've had women lie and tell me they don't have a boyfriend (when I know they do have one) and the ones that do have one always seem to be looking for something better. I've never met a woman yet that showed loyalty. They may think they are loyal but as soon as they become attracted to me, that goes out of the window because they are led by their emotion and tingles."

Another gager"I've been hit on by single moms and a few married women. After I rejected one married woman, she lamented how most men would never care that she was married and how that fact made her like me even more.

The most common thing I've noticed is women in long term relationships looking for something new while keeping their current guy as a backup plan. Their current guy thinks she is loyal, sweet and a good girlfriend but we know better. Yea I bet we have had quite a lot of similar experiences."

Women cheat more than men today by the way.