3 Important Things I Learned from Being a Player

I was young and made the mistake of cheating, playing around and keeping my options open while in relationships. Although I regret it, here are a few things that I gained/learned.

3 Important Things I Learned from Being a Player

Being assertive is a good thing.

People may judge others, thinking that being picky is bad. But really it isn't! I was on a mission to date, date, date until I found someone worth settling down with. Nothing wrong with finding the one person that will be different from everyone else.

3 Important Things I Learned from Being a Player

Men enjoy the chase.

Don't be available all the time, don't be overly eager to go on dates, don't respond within seconds, and keep yourself occupied. The reason I enjoyed keeping my options open is because it kept me entertained... and honestly this is what made me seem so unavailable to the men I was dating. I didn't have time for them, and that made them want me even more.

3 Important Things I Learned from Being a Player

Don't show your heart too quickly.

The men that weren't willing to put in effort to try and get into a relationship after months of dating, were the men that weren't worth my time. I learned that if I didn't invest all my emotions and energy into one person (especially if I saw the signs they weren't the right guy), it would save me a lot of stress and heartache.

3 Important Things I Learned from Being a Player

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