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My husband of one year being married and a 7 years being my best friend meaning of open relationship he lives in a separate place mean. When I saw him the other day I did not feel the connection to him he barely Sat by me and I had to force a hug out of him I had to go hug him. And all he did was come over to let me tell Eve on the phone his new girlfriend because we have open relationship that he was really married so I could tell her myself and then he just left he didn't even sleep with me or tried even talk to me? Also he does not call or text me.

As example someone who is involved with a decent woman or man leading them along for sex by saying all the "right" words but which they honestly don't mean.

I am just wondering because a friend of mine just had an issue with her boyfriend. Now she is the softest, sweetest person you'll meet a true heart of gold. Not a pushover but she wants to help, etc., etc. And it's something a LOT of people - friends, colleagues, etc. - have warned her about how bluntly people without her best intentions at heart will use/abuse her.

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Anyway she asked to meet at his house 2 weeks from X date and was told no, maybe a couple of weeks.

Now ever since they're last meet up, instead, he has constantly brought up meeting up at airbnbs. Yes the last time that they met up they did this & had a good time.

But there's something sleazy / cheap about meeting at an airbnb - like a side fling, a hookup.

And that's something she brought up tonight. That airbnb = hookup, what when no to home.

Automatically he gets defensive & offended by the implication.

But the thing is, when she asked to meet at his house like a proper girlfriend / boyfriend relationship it was no.

But for meeting at an airbnb - like said a sleasy / cheap side piece / fling - he's constantly bringing it up, begin gunho about it.