Her birthday is on the later part of December and I won't lie, the breakup was initially amicable but my mental health took a toll and she blocked me but unblocked and reached out to me 3 weeks later, I messed it up by talking to her when I wasn't mentally ready or even healthy.
And through a mutual friend I found out that she isn't at her best mental state as she says that her only personality is toxic, sometimes questioning if she is alive or dying and calling herself a crazy b*tch due to gossip about how me and her broke up and other bad stuff about herself
She just texted me saying that she doesn't want anything to do with me anymore and to leave her alone, I know that's pretty cut and dry to leave her alone and she's even stated that she feels that I don't get her at all now but I still feel that I'm responsible for causing her current mental state and I want to check up on her in a few months time when I'm better mentally myself.
I have no intentions of getting back together as I know that boat has sailed, been set on fire, crashed into an iceberg and eaten by a whale. I just want to make up to her for the pain I've caused her by checking up on her, telling her that I'm in a better place mentally, telling her I've cleared up the gossip that was spreading about her and just reminiscing about past fond memories and of course wishing her a happy birthday.
But I'm reconsidering if I should as I'm worried that her mental health might have gotten worse by the time it reaches December instead of getting better. She hasn't blocked me on anything so I can still text her but I won't do it till December
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You can't undo the past. Either let go and put her in your past, or be honest with yourself about why you refuse to do that.
Fuck no