So my ex (36m) and I (32f) broke up in April after being together for 8 months. I broke up with him because he treated me badly. He wanted to try again and start over which I eventually agreed. He didn't make any efforts to show me how much he wanted me back and I feel has been stringing me along. He doesn't answer my questions, doesn't reassure me with anything and is just extremely emotionally unavailable. We're both single, haven't had the arenwe back together talk or anything because he refuses to talk about us and meet me half way so as far as I'm concerned he was done with me. I've been in a bad place mentally on and off since we broke up. This week, a friend of mine (who is kind of an ex too) invited me to stay with him and his girlfriend for a few days. Its purely platonic because of how he treated me too and he's also happy in his relationship. There's no romantic feelings there. My ex hates him because of the way he treated me (but in essence has treated me way worse) I tagged my friend and his girlfriend in a story earlier today, no faces, just food. And my ex has popped up saying thing like "hasn't taken you long to get back to an ex. We're done" "so predictable, good luck" "and gone to visit him too it seems, we are done we don't really need to stay in touch either" This man confuses the shit out of me!
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If he comes back to you he’s gonna have to make big changes
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He's playing it cool, 100% its the best way to get someone back and if it doesn't work well time to move on, if is certainly better then begging and not getting back together. Just both go with the flow.
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He's a narcissist. To go hot and cold, and then string you along means he's just looking out for himself.
He is a narcissist Run and dont waste your time.
Let him go
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