Does it seem like he’s just not into me and making excuses?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

We where speaking for months and he would never meet me

[slatyb]

Waste of time. If someone won't meet you quickly, move on. They aren't serious. I learned this dating online. As soon as someone allows interest, ask for a meeting for coffee or lunch. If that won't cooperate, they aren't serious or just aren't adult enough to date.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He’s 31 too old to have wasted four months talking to me when he knew his situation! He should’ve value his own time more and other peoples

[Bklynbadboy12]

It just seem like he's not ready he's just been through a major break up he sad he was buying a house with his ex at the beginning of the year now he's sleeping on his friends couch. It seems like he's focused on getting his life together. I have a question for you why do you keep going for these impossible relationships

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He did tell me this but he was still flirting and texting with me so I assumed he was interested but now I know he probably was just killing time or being nice but at least I have closure and I know

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well if he was flirting with you he just probably wanted swx cause he doesn't want a relationship

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

How do you know he doesn’t want a relationship

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can tell by what he's saying to you. He wants sex but not a relationship

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Maybe i didn’t read between the lines but is it because if he wanted a relationship he wouldn’t have said about his ex, or mentioned his messy bedroom? Do you think it is something to do with me and he just doesn’t want tears or drama cause we share the same gym

[Bklynbadboy12]

Basically he's saying he just got out of a relationship and he's not ready to get into another he focused on getting his life together. He's just saying it in a nice way

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I mean I didn’t ask for a relationship I just asked to hang out I seen him as a friend but I guess he’s putting it out there so I don’t start saying he played me or something

[Bklynbadboy12]

If you hang out with him it's gonna lead to sex

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

We don’t speak anymore anyways I basically cut it off so but who knows what can happen in the future

[Bklynbadboy12]

I'm just shocked your single cause your a good woman

[spartan55]

Maybe find a dude who can string together an intelligent sentence and at least spell? Good lord you have not changed.

[Anonymous]

Does he know what you look like? Have you sent him flirty pics?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

He know what I look like yes why? And yeah I have

[eagle1951]

yeah

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Then honestly why speak to me? For months

[eagle1951]

to see if he can get anything

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Least your honest