Search Results: hate trying to date

Why do some men hate independence in a woman?

If you direct yourself to my response in the question below, you'll see that the concept of an independent woman is extremely triggering for some men. Why is this the case and why do men feel personally attacked if we...

Ally247

Yoda Age: 23

Relationships

Is It Normal To Have Doubts At The Start of a Relationship?

I've been seeing this girl since August. We're not official yet, but from the start I always told my friends I would never date her long term and she was only a short term thing, because I thought we were too different. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Why do woman lashout/trash talk/hate on when you compliment them?

Hello Since 2015, I had a lot of woman lashing out at me for telling them compliment. I know those woman and I'm usually on good term with them. Example : - The beautiful José ( This one made a bug fuss over n...

usernamesk

Xper 4 Age: 37

Dating

Men : Are y’all jealous of gay women who compete for other bisexual or lesbian women?

I find a lot of men try to convert me to do something I clearly don’t want to do which is date them. I’m strictly lesbian and when a guy hears this some men automatically assume a 3 sum or some kind of girl or girl on...

ct1243

Xper 7 Age: 37

Dating

Everytime I say I hatewhen I say I hate my body my crush never stops me and says “you’re perfect how you are” why?

He’s a personal trainer and instead of saying “your body is fine how it is” he just gives me tips on how to gain weight, he’ll say “why don’t you try lifting weights?” Or “why don’t you consume more calories” 😡 Yet...

Dreamgirl97xo

Xper 5 Age: 27

Dating

What to do with trying to date a nurse during covid?

I met this nurse on Match a little over a week ago, we been clicking, but for a week now, it’s been hard to get traction going. What I see is they her being a nurse, and things upon the uptick, she’s becoming more...

JRise25

Xper 6 Age: 38

Dating

Would you still date a girl who was insecure about her body?

I keep hearing that guys only go for girls who are confident and love their bodies. So just wanted to know if this was true? I absolutely hate my body. I feel like I’m too thin. But I’ve always been naturally skinny...

Dreamgirl97xo

Xper 5 Age: 27

Other

Should I tell him my mom is trying to get a no-contact order?+how can I convince my mom to not get one against him (TW: SELF-HARM)?

So I'm currently grounded and not allowed to be on here nor any other media where I can contact people but of course me being a sneaky person, have not followed her order and she doesn't know I'm communicating with this...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex says she hates herself because of me. What can I do to help her? I don’t believe I’m the Cause?

So we broke up two months ago, initiated by her. She said we’re incompatible, etc. she and I were fighting a lot toward the end, and she was fighting to keep the relationship going. I stupidly, kept getting her more and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How to get over a Tinder date that went wrong?

I'm 18, I went on my first date with a guy ever and it was really bad. He insulted me the whole time, tried to get me into his car, and was trying to kiss me the whole time. I did make out with him and it was my first...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

How would you feel if you received this text from an ex that made you hate yourself?

We dated for a year. She told me I made her hate herself and she hasn’t moved on (2 months ago we broke up.) I had been going through some mental stuff which is never an excuse but I was distant. Sometimes I’d take her...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, if your ex boyfriend really hurt you, what would he have to do for you to take him back?

My ex girlfriend told me I made her hate herself. We dated for about a year, and broke up (she initiated it) 2 months ago. I basically was really bad at showing affection, we’re both 20 and this was my first...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do you text girls to keep them interested enough to get a date without texting hey or sounding boring?

I hate texting it seems that girls only like texting I prefer to call or meet up in person to chat to get to know someone. How can I become better at texting and keeping a conversation going over text. When I text hey and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, This girl and I talked and she said she liked me her friend got involved and both of them blocked me on instagram?

So About in the start of the year i met this girl we talked a lot she flirted with me calling me her cutie and her perfect she stays in the same town as me aswell so i thought after lockdown we should have a date which...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Making memories together, him biting but not kissing me yet - date #6

I haven't written about this in a while, but things are getting rather intense and I'm totally having it. Here are some of the other takes about this guy (most recent to least recent); Going exclusive is scary. Why...

tallandsweet

Editor Age: 24

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Dating

Told the guy I’m seeing about my eating disorder. Does he actually understand based on his response?

I told him in text message I have had an eating disorder for 12 years now. I told it had changed into different eating disorders but basically I don’t enjoy eating and in particular eating around others causes me a ton of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

If Karen is the name for bossy entitled middle-aged white women, then what would other women's names describe?

Here's what I think: Abigail/Abby - Likely has low self esteem, despite her looks. Likely to date nerds and geeks for the easy morale boost. Allison/Alison - Sarcastic and often times cranky. The type to date bad types...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

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Dating

Going exclusive is scary. Why won't he kiss me? [Three months of online dating series]

This take is about a guy I met online . I've known him for three months , he's Central European like me [some people didn't get that information from the other posts I've made about him on here]. He is not American,...

tallandsweet

Editor Age: 24

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Marriage & Weddings

Boyfriend of 4 years gives mixed signals about marriage. Am I just wasting my time?

We met 4 years ago and I told him at the beginning that I prefer to only date with possibility of marriage. He said that he was scared of getting married because his parents divorced, but was looking for a serious...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

What’s so bad about not being a challenge for men?

My boyfriend told me a few days ago that I’m the perfect package, that physically I’m totally his type, and that I’m the sweetest girl he ever date, ( that’s what I always tried to be with him), but he told me that he...

Anonymous

(25-29)