After 2 years, he started talking about us marrying and wedding ideas and stuff with me, and became more open to the idea of marriage, and told me he definitely wants to marry me one day.
The other day, I asked him how long he wants to wait to marry. He said 10 years. I asked if sooner is a possibility and he laughed and wouldn’t answer. I said that there is more risk having kids older and he just kept trying to change the topic. He said that the more I ask about marriage, the farther he’ll push it out into the future.
I hate how sometimes we talk about marrying hypothetically in a fun happy way, and but when I try to talk actual concrete plans he’s evasive and uncomfortable.
I’m 24 now and wouldn’t mind a 1-2 year engagement. I don’t think I can wait any longer after 25. I want to be married by age 27.
Am I just wasting my time with him?