How to get over a Tinder date that went wrong?

[Anonymous]

I'm 18, I went on my first date with a guy ever and it was really bad. He insulted me the whole time, tried to get me into his car, and was trying to kiss me the whole time. I did make out with him and it was my first time doing that too... he did it kind of unexpectedly multiple times and I hated it so much I wanted to throw up. And now I've literally been crying for like 3 hours because I was just so triggered by it. I drank 3 cups of coffee and I don't even like coffee! I'm just so stressed and I don't know why... like I'm in a weird state of shock and maybe it's just the coffee but I'm seriously so stressed & anxious from it.

[007kingifrit]

tinder is for sex, by being on tinder you instantly let men know you don't want to date and you only want sex. that's the long and short of it, tinder is not for relationships

also... how do women end up making out with guys they don't want to make out with i don't even get it

[infinitybreaker2018]

That coffee actually is making you feel worse. Caffeine can amplify stress and anxiety.

Im sorry it happened, but not all guys are like that. Focus on something you like and what makes you happy. I've had shitty tinder dates and you get over it pretty fast

[Tyrael]

Unfortunately dating apps (particularly Tinder) are generally only used for one thing. Some guys on tinder will come to expect that from a date, and that's not right or typical of a normal date.

Please don't let it paint a bad picture of all men, this was a Tinder date and not a real date. Put it out of your mind and then next time you go on a date, that'll be your proper first date, with proper expectations and hopefully not some asshole.

[Fukaroo]

Sorry that this happened to you. Please don't let this ruin your life. I recommend staying off dating apps like this for a while. It definitely shouldn't be used if you're inexperienced. A lot of rejected creeps on there out for one thing.

[Jamie05rhs]

He sounds like a bad dude. I'm glad you survived that. But I'm sorry you had to experience it at all.

Maybe try a different site other than Tinder next time. (Not your fault, though; you didn't know.)

[ColHathi]

I actually wouldn't be surprised if that's the coffee making it worse :p but yeah my god that guy sounds like a creep and an asshole.

[Steady_Living]

I hope you're doing better. I'm sorry you're first dating experience turned out that way. Don't blame yourself, you didn't know. Unfortunately there are men out their who weren't raised better.

[TheFlak38]

so when will you run back to him with tears in your eyes to experience this all over again?

[Anonymous]

Sounds hot. Let me know who and where he is

[knight2468]

U like what u did and u hate yourself for that

[Jmmmfi4]

Just leave it in the past

[Anonymous]

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