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"Back in the day" (when I was a young man, shortly after the Spanish-American War,) there was no internet, no cell phones, no texting, no FB, IG, SC, Twitter, G@G, TInder, POF, match. com, or anything else. Somehow we survived!

Anyway. . . sometimes, a friend's girlfriend would say, "I have a friend who would be PERFECT for you!" When I asked, "What does she look like?" they would respond, "She has a great personality," and that let me know to not expect a beauty queen. Sometimes, the friend's girlfriend would set up a date, sometimes it would be a double date with the friend and his girlfriend, and I would just show up and meet the lucky contestant. Sometimes, I would call the girl to arrange the date but I never met her, or saw her, in advance of the date. These were called "blind dates;" perhaps that term is still used.

Usually, there were no great surprises, because I entered such dates with virtually no expectations, though I did have one date with a girl - Candace -from Agnes Scott College who was charming and beautiful! None of the blind dates resulted in a long term relationship, but it did develop some dating skills that later became useful (I started college when I was 16 - not common in my day - and was trying to date girls who were at least 3 years older than me. Yes, that was harder than Chinese arithmetic!)

Have you ever had a blind date? How did it work out for you? Did he or she "have a wonderful personality?"

I'm dating a girl. Well it could be better between us.

One of our problems or my problem is that it takes hours for her to reply my texts. 4-5 hours, many times over 8 hours.

It wouldn't be a problem if she did this to everyone. But see can reply others really quickly. She can even hold her phone in her hand so she can reply quickly. Even when she is with me, that's how I know. We are working at the same job, and at the coffee breaks she writing on her phone almost all the time.
I can say to her she can reply my text now, while she is still writing. But she say she will reply me later, but she does not.

When she reply my texts it take hours (at least 4-8). Many times no reply at all.

I tried talk to her about this. But she say she is bussy. I said no one is so bussy for 4-5 hours and you can reply others really quickly. But she said it's not true. But I have seen she reply others really quickly.

It's like she is not even curious about what I have to say.

One time when we were watching a movie at my place. The movie was her choice. But after just a few minutes she started to write with a guy in 1 hour. I said to her many times watch the movie and hang out with me. But she said she already have seen the movie. I said it was you who choosed the movie.
I asked her to leave my place and go to this guy's place instead. Because she talked to him on internet almost all the time instead of having a movie night with me. But she said she wanted to be with me. I said you are not with me. You only talking to this guy.

I don't know what to do. It's like she doesn't want to talk with me.

I'm dating a girl. We doesn't call ourself girlfriend and boyfriend It's too early for that.

We have been on several dates. But she already thinks I'm too fat. Well she doesn't say the word fat. But she gives me hints she think i'm too fat. Like "I think you eat too much food.", "You would be a great santa claus.", "Maybe you should have one or two days per week when you don't eat any food."

This girl is skinny and yes I am a little bit overweight. I am trying to loose weight but it's not easy. And the eval words from her mouth are not helping.

We started talking to each other on Facebook, before we met each other for the first time She had (and still have) many pictures with great texts. Like "age and height and weight are just numbers."
She already knew when we met I was not skinny. She was fine with that. But it's easy saying that on internet.

All of her ex boyfriends are skinny.

She said I'm the most adorable and wonderful guy in the world, really funny guy who makes her laugh. When we are not together she said she miss me a lot. But we are only seeing each other one day per week. I don't think she miss me as much she saying. We living in the same city and can see each other anytime we wants.

I want to have sex with her, but she doesn't want that now. She wants to wait until we are official boyfriend and girlfriend. I think she only saying that because I doesn't turn her on.

Yes I can keep loosing weight but it's not easy. And I don't want to be skinny as her old boyfriends. But she like skinny guys. I actually don't know why she wants to be with me. Sure she likes my personality. But I wants to turn her on.

She always had skinny boyfriends. I am the first guy she's with who is a little bit overweight. But she doesn't want to have sex with me. And I don't like how she talking to me about my weight.

One side of me is saying "date another girl who likes you as you are." and one side is saying "date her and see if I can turn her on."