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A couple of days back when this cute co-worker of mine and I went to the store together, she called me love and started asking if I had any special needs (she clarified that the reason why she asked me the question was because we had a conversation slightly beforehand about her baby's tracheostomy issue; I answered her with the truth (as any real friend should), but while I didn't directly say I was autistic, I told her I was diagnosed with the disorder at age 3.

I've called her pet names like goddess, beautiful, babe, etc. But I didn't jump into the extremes. While she has continuously called me "love", I have refrained from calling her something more lusty, such as "sexy" or "shawty". She's certainly not single; she mentioned something about a husband of hers while in the car and called someone daddy. A day later, I found her falling in love with a fellow male co-worker (who is ALSO married with kids). They both are married (not to each other) with at least one kid of each of their own.

Personally, that pissed me off. But I acted okay with it, I didn't go snitching around like a bitch. She's in her high 20s, the dude is in his 30s, I'm only in my low 20s. I saw the dude and her behind closed doors in the main office; I didn't know WTF they were doing, but it seemed kinda sus to me. She called him handsome the day later and was flirtacious, sarcastic, etc etc. She was rarely like that to me. RARELY.

She said today that "we're gonna need to talk" (while we were at the lunch table with the same co-worker) and when he left, she asked me about work boundaries. She, in an indirect manner, told me that I must call her by her real name, and not babe or sweethart or whatever. But what's the point of that advice when she literally called me love? She even said something worse, saying there "might have been a miscommunication" when she gave me her number and that the number is for "work only." Well, she didn't apply this very same standard to the other co-worker!

I've come across a lot of women in my life and I'm easy to talk to so they tend to open up and share personal details of our lives. In addition, I have a lot of female friends in my circle and have good insight into picking up on human behavior.

One thing I've notice is that a lot of girls who have issues with their dad, whether their dad left the family when they were young or they just had a poor relationship (aka resent him), often tend to be heavy alcoholics. I've also notice that said girls tend to be party girls and easy picking for fuckboys/players.

For example, I once knew a girl who just finished college and wanted to party her ass off before she officially started working. She got tricked by a guy who gave her a place to stay for the holidays and promised to show her a good time if she blew him. Needless to say she did it and the guy after getting serviced by her kind of ignored her ass and she spent most of her trip obsessing about this guy and how much of an asshole he is. And this girl's father is in her life but she considers him an asshole.

Another girl I know for example is heavily into fitness, social media and also drinks a lot. She has a bad relationship with her dad who she claims was abusive to her mom. Now she is in a relationship with a male who keeps their interaction a secret and has like little to no social media pictures with her. Basically keeping her as a secret booty call on the side, so that his main girl doesn't find out.

I have more examples but just wanted to know if women in general who have issues with their dad tend to gravitate towards fuckboys/players?