How often do a girl does this for a guy?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl in college, and she's absolutely fantastic. She's kind, happy, friendly, really smart, and even tho she may not have a super model body, I find her quite attractive phisically. She asks me about my welfare, when classes are done for the day she asks me if I got home safely, if I eat, when we walk together we can talk about anything for hours, and she even says “I have to save money to take you to...”
Today I was feeling down, I slept very few hours last night so I was sleepy and out of energy. She noticed, and when I got home she asked me if there was something happening, if I was sad, and that if something bad is going on, I can always count with her, that the goal is for me to be fine.

I wonder, how often does a girl do this with a friend? I have a huge crush on her, but we've known each other for less than a month, and if I tell her I like her, I don't wanna realize later that she appreciates me as a friend but nothing further.

So, do girls do this with their male friends often? Or do they only do they when they're into the guy?

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Sorry for my English, it's not my first language and I'm still learning

[idkwhatsreal]

Yea I would say the feeling is mutual in the crush department. Less than a month and you both are super comfortable with each other. That’s a pretty rare occurrence for me anyways.

[Asker]

So, you would do all those things only if you were into the guy?

[idkwhatsreal]

I wouldn’t necessarily say that but judging by how long you’ve known one another if I wasn’t interested in them it would definitely take me longer to be that comfortable and open with someone. If it even got that far at all. Now she could just have that outing personality but even if she does it seems like should is deciding to use it to get to know you. And that’s her choice so yes I’d say she’s into you

[JoyGirl]

She likes you.

[Asker]

Would you never do this with a guy you're not into?

[JoyGirl]

I wouldn’t…lol

I check on my guy friends every now and then, but not every freaking day…LOL 🤣